Like a room mate.

LegacyUser

Hello all,

So I live in a house with 4 others, we all moved in over the space of a few months but didn't know each other. We've been living here for nearly a year and 2 of us are moving out in about 2 months time.

I wont lie, Ive been into one of the girls since the beginning and decided not to act on it, firstly in a hope it would just pass and secondly because Id prefer not to cause an uncomfortable situation between us.

So, 10 months later, were both still single, Im still into her and now kind of considering acting on it. I've noticed a few subtle things between us in the past few weeks, we text a lot more and it's usually just friendly texts instead of 'Can you make sure I locked the gate' or something like that. After a night out we'll stay up for hours chatting.

But these are all things that also happen as people get more friendly, which also happens when you live with someone, so you can see my problem.

Ive two options, do nothing miss out and just remain friends with her, Its not the worst thing but I rarely find myself still fancying a girl after this length of time, Ive usually noticed something that annoyed me and moved on.

The second, I make a move on a night out, It either goes well or it doesnt, If it doesnt do you think shed still be friendly with me? If it does, then happy days!

Comments, opinions and advice appreciated

runswithascript

Go for it, worst case scenario she tells you she loves you like a brother.

sillymoo2007

Carpe diem sieze the day, go for it

LegacyUser

Do it mate. You won't regret it. Just do it in a mature and classy manner. Approach her and tell her how you feel but give her room to let you down gently. I did this once and she let me down. We were both mature about it and we knew where we stood and it actually made us closer as friends.