One thing after another! :(

0000879k

Hi guys, a lot of **** things have been building up on me lately, and the little good ones have not levelled them out!

First off, my family got a french student, which I have to look after almost 24/7. Good business plan by the family, get money from this lad and just make me do everything! Not fair
Next, me and my friends are going abroad soon, which I can't wait for, but now they've invited this dickhead which I hate, like 100%. They invited him cos one of them is good friends with him, not best, or really good, just good, the rest are just aquantences with him, and the one who is 'good friends' barely even sees him. And they see me and hang out with me far more often, I just feel I should be prioratized over this **** coming. He really will make my time so much ****ter.
Next, I can't go out tonight cos I have to look after the frech student while my parents go out.
Next, I was working the past 3 days, and till 9pm last night so I didn't go to bed till like 2am, and was woken by my mother at 11am (a woman who spends 70% of her time in bed!) and given out to saying my tv is coming out of my room if I'm going to be getting up this late, I haven't even f*cking used it in like 4 days!
Next, I work hard around the house, do everything I'm told, and lots, lots more, where as my brother and sister are lazy ****es that do nothing, at all and I'm always under appreciated also, my sister gets whatever she wants when she just asks, even if I work my ass off I barely get anything.

Long story short, those are like only 40% of my problems and I f*cking hate my life atm. Not sure if anyone here can actually help, but I needed to get that out.

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I wish I had someone to say to me what im gonna say to u when I was younger. People are finding out if they can bring u down, for whatever reasons, jealousy, their own weakness.. Try to sort out with your mates to exclude that guy. If thats too much, be a prick back to him and dont give him an inch, i.e. do what he does to u back to him eg stare him out of it, throw your weight around etc.. Sorry but your other mates are probably in the same boat, probably nobody likes this guy but everyone is unsure of what to do. Do this and a world of social possibilities will open up and you'll be respected. I donno, maybe your social circle is more humane than mine but its just my experience. Ive also got much fewer friends nowadays!

Your mother is human and is not perfect either. U gotta tell her straight to herface what u said about your sis and her also staying in bed longer than u. Just do it nicely! Depends on how old u are and how independent u are if you can call her out as a hippocrite, an idiot, or worse! I had 4 sisters an no brothers so im qualified to comment!

Good luck

0000879k

0000879k wrote: »

First off, my family got a french student, which I have to look after almost 24/7. Good business plan by the family, get money from this lad and just make me do everything! Not fair

You should ask for a cut or you'll no longer look after him. You should be contributing towards the household, but as long as you pick up after yourself and throw your parents a few bob from your earnings, you shouldn't have any obligation to spend your free time earning them money. Tell them they should have had a plan for looking after this student before they took him on, and that you shouldn't be obliged to do their work for them.

Next, me and my friends are going abroad soon, which I can't wait for, but now they've invited this dickhead which I hate, like 100%.

Unfortunately, your friends are entitled to invite people along, and this other guy shouldn't be excluded just because you don't like him. If you focus on how you think he'll ruin your time, you'll only make it worse, so you'll have to just ignore it and try to stay unaffected by him.

Next, I was working the past 3 days, and till 9pm last night so I didn't go to bed till like 2am, and was woken by my mother at 11am (a woman who spends 70% of her time in bed!) and given out to saying my tv is coming out of my room if I'm going to be getting up this late, I haven't even f*cking used it in like 4 days!

If you don't use it and you're so busy, who cares? Let them take it if they want, there's plenty of other stuff to do than looking at TV.

Next, I work hard around the house, do everything I'm told, and lots, lots more, where as my brother and sister are lazy ****es that do nothing, at all and I'm always under appreciated also, my sister gets whatever she wants when she just asks, even if I work my ass off I barely get anything.

It sounds like your brother and sister are better at getting what they want. If you want your parents to indulge you, you have to act like you're on their side. From everything you've written here it sounds like you probably fight with them/complain a lot. You can't expect them to be nice to you unless you're nice to them. There's a lot I can't tell from your post, like how you treat your parents or whether you are actually contributing to the household, but in general it sounds like you feel you've gotten a raw deal. The only thing for it is acquiring a better attitude towards life. I know how that sounds, but it's true.