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  • 24-07-2012 6:40pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I got talking to this girl on Facebook through a mate of mine who was meeting her friend. Anyway we spoke on Facebook and I happened to see her last week in town we spoke but it was only briefly. She then asked me out to the cinema I declined the invitation and said I just see us as friends and nothing else. She was fine about it.

    Fast forward to last night. I was out in the nightclub last night and I was drunk (not making excuses) and we got talking to told me she liked me and we kissed a few times.

    Thing is I was drunk and I don't really have feelings for her. She told my mate again that she really likes me but I don't like her in that although she hasn't mentioned it to me. My question is should I set her straight and say last night was a mistake?

    What would be the best way of going about this ?


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  • #2
    snafuk35
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 833 ✭✭✭snafuk35


    weeq1 wrote: »
    I got talking to this girl on Facebook through a mate of mine who was meeting her friend. Anyway we spoke on Facebook and I happened to see her last week in town we spoke but it was only briefly. She then asked me out to the cinema I declined the invitation and said I just see us as friends and nothing else. She was fine about it.

    Fast forward to last night. I was out in the nightclub last night and I was drunk (not making excuses) and we got talking to told me she liked me and we kissed a few times.

    Thing is I was drunk and I don't really have feelings for her. She told my mate again that she really likes me but I don't like her in that although she hasn't mentioned it to me. My question is should I set her straight and say last night was a mistake?

    What would be the best way of going about this ?

    "I'm not interested in you" usually helps.


  • #3
    Lorna123
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,116 ✭✭✭Lorna123


    You could get your friend to tell her that you are interested in someone else and this could put her off. I don't think you can take her aside and tell her you are not interested as you are not in a relationship with her. You can also avoid her and if she asks you out again just repeat what you said the first time. You will obviously not be asking her out so this thing will fizzle out all by itself. No need for any announcements in my opinion.


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