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I still miss her

  • 14-07-2012 1:09am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I just wanted to tell someone.

    (I couldn't very well tell the new one could I?) I haven't talked to her in a couple of months now and I don't think I should, there's a reason she's not in my life. But I still think about her every single day and miss her.

    :(


Comments

  • #2
    Lorna123
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,116 ✭✭✭Lorna123


    Gosh OP, that must be hard. It takes a long time to get someone special out of your system. You will never forget, but you need to move on and that will come in time. Pity the new g/f cannot help you get over this, maybe in time she will. You will have pangs of regret for a while, it is normal. Hoping you feel better soon.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I feel for you, I feel the same everyday for someone else too. I know it's really hard too. We will survive.


  • #4
    WhyGoBald
    Closed Accounts Posts: 146 ✭✭WhyGoBald


    Just wanted to say I sympathise with your position, OP, I'm in your shoes. The last contact I had with someone who doesn't want anything to do with me anymore was nearly three months ago.

    I think the one thing you can do is keep busy and have some projects on hand to focus on. I hope the new person in your life has a realistic idea of your feelings.

    Good luck.


  • #5
    Ellsbells
    Closed Accounts Posts: 985 ✭✭✭Ellsbells


    loss wrote: »
    I just wanted to tell someone.

    (I couldn't very well tell the new one could I?) I haven't talked to her in a couple of months now and I don't think I should, there's a reason she's not in my life. But I still think about her every single day and miss her.

    :(

    Op as long as you feel like this about someone you really should not be entering a new relationship - it's not fair on the new girl.


  • #6
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    In the same boat as the OP. I still feel the exact same about that person and it just doesn't fade. Time seems to be the adult version of the Santa Claus lie.

    I've accepted that the part of my heart that has been stretched by them, will always belong to them. I don't mind. I'm grateful to find out that my heart is capable of extraordinary things and know that it has been stretched for the better and is still capable of being stretched again by someone else, for someone else. I don't mind waiting to feel it again, however long it takes, it's worth the wait.

    Feeling something like that for someone is a good thing to feel and should be embraced. Waiting around for that to fade, I'll be waiting a lifetime and that isn't right either.

    Be careful though, Ellsbells is right, not to rush into anything. Don't just be trying to replace that part of your heart that has been stretched.


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