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Stare

  • 13-07-2012 9:02pm
    #1
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 449 ✭✭


    Drives me mad. People who stare. Go for a coffee most mornings & there is this freak, who makes a point of sitting right near me, or some place he can stare. And he just stares. Its not a fancy stare, its a freaky stare, like he cannot help himself, some sort of OCD.

    People stare, alot. Not one myself, I find it draws unwanted attention upon yourself EG: staring at 2 people fighting

    Hate it. Are you guilty?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,640 ✭✭✭Pushtrak


    The opposite of this. I barely even look at people, away in my own world and hardly notice people. This means I don't notice if people do stare except when with friends who give a crap about others like you, OP.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,207 ✭✭✭The King of Moo


    In fairness, if I saw someone with their pants on their face, I'd stare too.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,249 ✭✭✭Scioch


    I dont stare but anytime I look in someones direction I make eye contact and they give me that "what the hell are you staring at" look. Its happened so often that I know whats happened so I dont give them the same look back which makes me look like the guilty party.


  • Posts: 50,630 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I no stare. I live in bungalow.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 449 ✭✭Pantsface


    Pushtrak wrote: »
    The opposite of this. I barely even look at people, away in my own world and hardly notice people. This means I don't notice if people do stare except when with friends who give a crap about others like you, OP.

    Tell Moonface I say hi


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 692 ✭✭✭fuerte1976


    Visit Tunisia- especially if you're a woman. You'll see staring taken to a whole new level :eek:


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 449 ✭✭Pantsface


    Germans love to stare also,


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,944 ✭✭✭✭4zn76tysfajdxp


    I no stare. I live in bungalow.

    Why does your username fit now? Who commited this abomination? Tell me his name so I may slay him like a wretched cur.


  • Posts: 50,630 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Why does your username fit now? Who commited this abomination? Tell me his name so I may slay him like a wretched cur.

    Stop staring at my username :(

    No really, what? Did Danny make it like, wrap n stuff? It looks the same to me. Yesterday it look crap but today it's ok.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 745 ✭✭✭Extinction


    Stop staring at my username :(

    No really, what? Did Danny make it like, wrap n stuff? It looks the same to me. Yesterday it look crap but today it's ok.

    Whats an oodles moderator whoopsadaisyd?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 863 ✭✭✭GastroBoy


    Maybe he's just in love with you, strike up a conversation and see what happens!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 24 Aidan_a


    LordSmeg wrote: »
    I dont stare but anytime I look in someones direction I make eye contact and they give me that "what the hell are you staring at" look. Its happened so often that I know whats happened so I dont give them the same look back which makes me look like the guilty party.
    Yeah I can relate, maybe if you smiled when you gave a glance around people might not react with hostility? I dunno


  • Posts: 50,630 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    LordSmeg wrote: »
    I dont stare but anytime I look in someones direction I make eye contact and they give me that "what the hell are you staring at" look. Its happened so often that I know whats happened so I dont give them the same look back which makes me look like the guilty party.

    But....they're looking at you too :confused:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,944 ✭✭✭✭4zn76tysfajdxp


    Stop staring at my username :(

    No really, what? Did Danny make it like, wrap n stuff? It looks the same to me. Yesterday it look crap but today it's ok.

    Yeah. It looks all wrapped to me.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,493 ✭✭✭Fulton Crown


    People stare for all sorts of reasons Dude....suck it up an chill the fuck out !

    Take a look at yourself..is the lablel on your top sticking out ? Somebody could be staring at you and wondering "who is that dildo with the label on their top sticking out..should I tell them ?.

    Have you pants on ...sitting with you legs "ajar" and showing your "bits" will attract starers...hmm ?.

    If your a girl and have very big titts ..people will stare...probably muttering "look at the rack on that one...Jeeeeeeeeez "

    Are you "strange" in any way..putting your knife in your mouth....have a lot of tatoos........are you perhaps very fat ?.......

    Got a big arse maybe. ?....me ..I'll always stare at that...could I park my bike there ....wonder if she likes it "that way" etc etc.

    All sorts of reasons why people stare.......just don't be concerned ....check out the above

    :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,406 ✭✭✭Pompey Magnus




  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 449 ✭✭Pantsface


    People stare for all sorts of reasons Dude....suck it up an chill the fuck out !

    Take a look at yourself..is the lablel on your top sticking out ? Somebody could be staring at you and wondering "who is that dildo with the label on their top sticking out..should I tell them ?.

    Have you pants on ...sitting with you legs "ajar" and showing your "bits" will attract starers...hmm ?.

    If your a girl and have very big titts ..people will stare...probably muttering "look at the rack on that one...Jeeeeeeeeez "

    Are you "strange" in any way..putting your knife in your mouth....have a lot of tatoos........are you perhaps very fat ?.......

    Got a big arse maybe. ?....me ..I'll always stare at that...could I park my bike there ....wonder if she likes it "that way" etc etc.

    All sorts of reasons why people stare.......just don't be concerned ....check out the above

    :D


    He does it all the time & its an intense physco stare.

    You're probably used to those kind of situations yourself the whole time though?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 363 ✭✭Icarus Wings


    The stare has been a survival technique to exhibit dominance over peers since the dawn of time...There's only one solution OP -

    Walk over to the individual, smack them across the right cheek with a glove and scream (in an Optimus Prime-style voice if possible) "I challenge you to a duel!!"

    If they are willing to accept the challenge and produce some class of a weapon, exhibit your own survival technique - the flight response (or "Scatter!!").


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,949 ✭✭✭Samich


    You must be a riiiiiiiiide. Pics please :P


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,249 ✭✭✭Scioch


    But....they're looking at you too :confused:

    Yeah I know but for some reason I'm always a split second ahead of them so I see them look over at me but to them it looks like I have been staring at them.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,073 ✭✭✭Pottler


    You looking at me? YOU lOOKING AT ME? You looking at me? YOU LOOKING AT ME? Err, No mate, I'm looking at the TV that's right behind you. Any chance you'd schooch down a bit?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,174 ✭✭✭✭Muckit


    How many seconds separate a look from a stare?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,184 ✭✭✭KINGVictor


    I think the most important question is how do you see people that stare at you without looking at them yourself?

    More importantly, I dont really care, let them look away as long as there is no abuse or physical confrontation.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,370 ✭✭✭✭Son Of A Vidic


    Pantsface wrote: »
    Drives me mad. People who stare.

    Simple solution, it may go against your natural inclination, but it should work.

    Next time make eye contact with the guy, then wrestle a snot from your nose. Examine it closely and deliberately, then recycle it. Disgusting I know, but it will put an end to your problem.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 449 ✭✭Pantsface


    Simple solution, it may go against your natural inclination, but it should work.

    Next time make eye contact with the guy, then wrestle a snot from your nose. Examine it closely and deliberately, then recycle it. Disgusting I know, but it will put an end to your problem.

    Another lad who does it, and kept on doing it, last time, I stuck my tongue out at him - he jumped out of his skin

    It was good


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,096 ✭✭✭✭the groutch


    That you again Samantha Brick?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,285 ✭✭✭bonzodog2




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 48 Carbon Bootprint


    Muckit wrote: »
    How many seconds separate a look from a stare?
    In Imperial, or metric?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 564 ✭✭✭ChunkyLover54


    OP, say to that person "Take a picture . It will last longer"

    That should get them to look somewhere else


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,041 ✭✭✭cocoshovel


    Everyone in Ireland seems to be interested in what everyone around them is doing, nosey as hell! I like how in other countries nobody gives a toss. You can do what you want, dress how you like, etc and nobody will care. Just keep to themselves. :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 48 Carbon Bootprint


    cocoshovel wrote: »
    Everyone in Ireland seems to be interested in what everyone around them is doing, nosey as hell! I like how in other countries nobody gives a toss. You can do what you want, dress how you like, etc and nobody will care. Just keep to themselves. :(
    Really? You mean like Saudi Arabia et al?

    Go fer it,dude.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 164 ✭✭EdanHewittt


    The power of a stare to ruin a person's carefully crafted outward appearance to the world is something I hold in high regard.

    There are certain cultures who have mastered the art of the stare. See: this

    You have to use this power moderately. Stare too much, and people won't notice you. Your stare juice runs out very quickly when you just do it for the sake of it.

    Collect enough stare juice, and you can penetrate the depths of someone's soul by one glance. Over the top? Fancy pancy you say?

    Try getting onto a LUAS packed full of non-nationals and you figure this thing out very quickly.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,425 ✭✭✭Festy


    cocoshovel wrote: »
    Everyone in Ireland seems to be interested in what everyone around them is doing, nosey as hell! I like how in other countries nobody gives a toss. You can do what you want, dress how you like, etc and nobody will care. Just keep to themselves. :(


    True,but one thing I've noticed anytime I have been in Dublin is nobody seems to give a toss what you wear,you could go around wearing a bin liner and nobody would bat an eyelid.Not like that in culchie land I'm afraid.:mad:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 595 ✭✭✭books4sale


    Pantsface wrote: »
    Another lad who does it, and kept on doing it, last time, I stuck my tongue out at him - he jumped out of his skin

    You sound like bit of a looper in fairness.

    Take your pants off your face, theres a good lad and you won't be having no problems.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,533 ✭✭✭Jester252


    I sometimes stare at people without known. I just go into deep though and I only notice when some one point it out.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,174 ✭✭✭✭Muckit


    staring stanley staring stanley


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