Samantha Brick: Women should spy on their husbands

Duggy747

The troll returns.

EDIT: This is in relation to Jamie Oliver's missus saying she checks all his personal stuff to make sure he ain't up to no good.

Source: Telegraph

Telegraph wrote:

Miss Brick said she regularly confronted her husband Pascal over numbers she didn't recognise or personal emails because she did not trust other women.
The journalist, who faced public humiliation after claiming women were jealous of her beauty, said snooping on her partner "protected her marriage".

Writing in the Daily Mail, she said: "For, as far as I'm concerned, my husband's emails, voicemails and texts aren't just his business — they're mine, too. I read, listen and check all of them daily. And I don't mind admitting that I open his post, too."

She denied she and Jools Oliver were insecure housewives following an interview in which the wife of the TV chef said she checked his emails, Twitter account and phone.

I'd be pretty livid if I found my GF checking all my stuff or demanding I answer to her about things like these like I'm her child. I'd imagine the same from her if I went snooping about her accounts and phone.

Can a relationship have a stable future if this was an unwritten rule for a couple, having access to all of their private affairs to make sure they're not doing the dirt on you?

In my case, we tell each other if our ex's get in contact with us because we usually get a chuckle at their not-so-subtle texts / emails of wanting to hook up again.

So, does anyone check up on their partner's stuff and snoop around (beyond their knickers drawer, anyway...........or if you're one who likes to go through your man's jocks :pac:)

Sunnyisland

Checking/snooping on your partner would have more got to do with your own insecurities than anything else.One must have trust in any solid relationship.

Green Diesel

Sounds like she judges everyone based on her own insecurities.

Or she's just looking for more attention.

Probably the latter.

freyners

if she was the most beautiful women in the world then why would she need to be checking.

feel sorry for her, she's either totally deluded or completely insecure

kfallon

If I was her husband I'd be checking her gee......with me foot!

What a fooking clitbag! :rolleyes:

seamus

Yet more evidence that this woman is unwell and in serious need of psychological help.

The media should be ashamed of themselves for encouraging her.

starbelgrade

freyners wrote: »

if she was the most beautiful women in the world then why would she need to be checking.

feel sorry for her, she's either totally deluded or completely insecure

She's certainly deluded about her looks. I mean, she's not ugly, but she's a plain Jane with a face that you wouldn't look twice at.

Eileen Down

Bunny Boiler :eek:

Schism

I usually try to reply in a somewhat sensical way but I got nothing this time.

Samantha Brick is a dope. What's the point of a relationship without trust.

Professey Chin

seamus wrote: »

Yet more evidence that this woman is unwell and in serious need of psychological help.

The media should be ashamed of themselves for encouraging her.

Lol :pac:

ejmaztec

seamus wrote: »

Yet more evidence that this woman is unwell and in serious need of psychological help.

The media should be ashamed of themselves for encouraging her.

She's laughing all the way to the bank, I wish I could make money when I talk sh1t all day long.:(

emzolita

you're probably the cheat if you're that insecure.

MetalDog

Samantha Brick must be delighted that people have finally stopped hating her for being beautiful.

Now they just hate her for being a cunt.

biko

With such a "hottie" for a wife, who could ever want to look at other women :enormousrolleyes:

My name is URL

freyners wrote: »

if she was the most beautiful women in the world then why would she need to be checking.

feel sorry for her, she's either totally deluded or completely insecure

She's making a fair few bob from it in any case.. typical media whore imo. I doubt she believes the stuff she says herself.

Bad Panda

Had to google a picture of her....Christ!

Talk about the epitome of average/decent enough looking!

I mention this because the first result from google was her on the 'downside to looking pretty'.

She's clearly mental and needs help. Being suspicious like that is unhealthy and no way to go through life.

krudler

can this waste of space ever just fcuk off.

emzolita

she was on This Morning a week ago saying 50 Shades of Grey was promoting abuse to women and that it is disgusting and derogatory to write a book about sex.
she's a blatant troll, and the media are troll feeders!

ciaranmac

MetalDog wrote: »

Now they just hate her for being a cunt.

FYP

holystungun9

kfallon wrote: »

If I was her husband I'd be checking her gee......with me foot!

What a fooking clitbag! :rolleyes:

I agree....but I'd probably use someone else's foot. I would't touch it even as a dare.

jester77

She's only seeking attention. Someone as beautiful as her would never have to worry about their husband playing away from home.

Why are the poll results hidden?
What have you got to hide OP?

Roadend

Deleted User wrote: »

Why are the poll results hidden?
What have you got to hide OP?

I demand to know everything

BunShopVoyeur

That doggy needs to be put down.

Delusional aul hag.

MetalDog

emzolita wrote: »

she was on This Morning a week ago saying 50 Shades of Grey was promoting abuse to women and that it is disgusting and derogatory to write a book about sex.
she's a blatant troll, and the media are troll feeders!

Still a better love story than Twilight.


As for Brick, the Celebrity big brother house beckons . . . .

Fentdog84

I think a little bit of snooping or jealousy is ok in a marriage/relationship. It lets the other person know you care and that your watching.

kfallon

BunShopVoyeur wrote: »

That doggy needs to be put down.

Oh ffs now I'm singing, "How much is that doggy in the window?" to myself....thanks for that :mad:

BunShopVoyeur

kfallon wrote:

Oh ffs now I'm singing, "How much is that doggy in the window?" to myself....thanks for that :mad:

Your mind is odd.

You're very welcome though!

"......the one with the waggley tail. Woof woof"

Duggy747

Deleted User wrote: »

Why are the poll results hidden?
What have you got to hide OP?

Yea, my bad.

Can a mod change it, purty please?

Results so far

Yes, I demand to know everything. - 3

No, I trust them / The threats of murder keep them at bay - 28

Atari X-Station 360 DS - 13

KenSwee

Hey the Poll is hidden. What's the story?

On the subject, to be honest, I don't mind if my wife looks through my emails and stuff but she dosen't bother. All broing crap there .
But I agree it's totally wrong to spy on anybody if they decide to keep their stuff private.

AnonoBoy

She's the most beautiful woman in the world. I won't hear a word against her.

She's almost as beautiful as Kerry Katona - but she's not of this world, she's an angel so Samantha still retains her title.























Wow, I think I've actually broken my sarcasm gland with this post!

mitosis

I expect my stuff to be gone through, ergo I keep a hidden sim and a special email account for my shennanigans

Stiffler2

Samantha Who ?











Oh did you see what I just did there ^^^^

It wasn't me!

Anyone decided that was an appropriate way to treat me is going out on their hole. I'm entitled to privacy, in a relationship or out of it, and my contacts with other people are not the business of my significant other, and the reverse applies too. I've never even been comfortable checking a text for someone else at their request, since it wasn't intended for me. If someone can't handle that, they're not fit to be in a relationship.

war_child

I honestly didnt know who this woman was and had to google her ...sweet jesus what a troglodite ...even my pc tried to shut down so it didnt have to see her ....ive seen better back ends of a horse...

And as far as checking your partners stuff to protect your marraige ..this girl has obviously taken full advantage of the fact its magic mushroom season and gotten jamie oliver to make them a nice cup of tea with it.

Im an old fashioned bloke and believe strongly that trust is the foundation on which we build our relationships. Either that or giving ur woman a good seein 2 everyday usually helps them keep the faith.

So if ya need me ill be in the bedroom with me missus reaffirming our trust ..

Catch yez later

super_furry

A relationship without trust is a pretty ****ty thing. Wouldn't do it and would be very angry if my girlfriend were to do it.

mitosis

I wouldn't google her with yours......

derfderf

Once my girlfriend doesn't find that invisible folder tucked away in the corner of my desk top i'm grand.

ejmaztec

My mother used to go through my dad's pockets, and all she ever found were wads of betting slips, leading her to the conclusion that the other woman was a bookie.

Crooked Jack

Where is all this "she's ok/ average looking" stuff coming from. She looks like someone who just had a mild stroke. Buck.

Shenshen

Sounds like she either married an absolute idiot, or should expect a divorce notice any day noe.

I would never do that to my husband, and would be livid if I found him spying on me.

Vicar in a tutu

CRINGE. Why would you go through your partners emails and texts etc ? , how could you even approach them if you found something! , very dishonest.. Samantha Brick is more to be pitied, too much confidence is unnatractive.

LittleBook

"Men seem to have no idea about how pitifully easily they can be trapped by unscrupulous women hell bent on hooking any chap they fancy," wrote Miss Brick.

She really has a low opinion of "men". :rolleyes:

Tombi!

I can't be the only man thinking this: even I'd make a prettier woman in drag than this yoke.
http://static.guim.co.uk/sys-images/Travel/Pix/pictures/2012/4/7/1333800501050/Samantha-Brick-wrote-an-a-008.jpg

dark crystal

I'd say more people have checked their partner's phones than are letting on here...

People in relationships cheat all the time (there have been enough threads on here affirming that fact), so anyone who trusts their partner 100% is being naive. That is not to say everyone cheats - most don't.

However, searching around your partner's private stuff as a matter of course just reeks of insecurity. If you have serious doubts about your OH's fidelity, ask them out straight. Life's too short to spend your entire relationship trying to find dirt on your partner.

i've never checked a partner's phone unless i was in front of him going "HEY IM CHECKING SOMETHING ON YOUR PHONE NOW OKAY"

blacklilly

As previous poster have said, everyone is entitled to their privicy and if someone says they trust their partner 100% but don't trust other men/women well then they obviously don't trust their partner 100% after all.

Ms. Brick is as thick as a brick but she also makes me feel incredibly sane in comparasion and make me wonder why the hell am I still single!

Dub Ste

kfallon wrote: »

If I was her husband I'd be checking her gee......with me foot!

What a fooking clitbag! :rolleyes:

Quite possibly the best insult I've seen in years :D

hatrickpatrick

I don't know what sort of draconian relationships ye have but I don't have the right to tell my girlfriend who she can be friends with, male or female, and she doesn't have the right to tell me who to be friends with either.

If you have other evidence that there might be something going on that's different. If I saw my GF getting a text from a guy she didn't know I wouldn't question her about it at all, it's her life and her friends.

This whole "who's she" crap people seem to think is acceptable is something I find deeply disturbing.

hatrickpatrick

Also..... Why are people paying attention to Samantha Brick, don't you realize you're feeding a professional troll?