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  • 09-07-2012 9:06pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hello,

    I'm a 30 year old male and on the surface, I have little to complain about. I'm employed, have my health and no financial worries. I feel, however, a lot of the time, unhappy and depressed, I suppose.

    I thought that at this stage in life I would have close friends, maybe even a girlfriend, and a fulfilling life. I'm not looking forward to the next 30 years if they are like this, it just seems like endless work for little benefit. I do have hobbies and have joined classes in the past, but I don't really integrate well into such groups. For example, a new guy began at work a while back, and after 3 months, he knew everyone and was liked by most people. Whereas I'm the opposite to him, too quiet and I have little to say.

    Making conversation is just that-having to make it. It doesn't come natural.

    If I didn't have work to get up for, I wouldn't get up. This has made me super anxious about losing my job at some stage, that if I don't work, then I won't have a reason to get up. As a result, I always volunteer for extra work/stay on late so that it makes a good impression. But I'm tried of it. Life shouldn't be like this.

    I don't know what I'm to do to make myself happy.


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