what does it mean when a one night stand adds u on facebook?

LegacyUser

Hi I sound naive asking this but recently had a one night stand with a guy , next morning he adds me on facebook? what does it mean . This has happened to one of my friends also . Is this the new thing to do or does it mean the person likes me or just wants to be nosey?

Aint Eazy Being Cheezy

Id guess that he likes you. He wants to know more about you and this is a subtle way of getting to.

There is the possibility he just wants a repeat performance but Im sure he'd ring or text if that was the case.

Accept the friend request, what have you got to lose?

P. Breathnach

If he has 532 facebook friends, it possibly means just about nothing; if he has 32 facebook friends, then I'd see it as jar_of_coins suggests.

mtjm

P. Breathnach wrote: »

If he has 532 facebook friends, it possibly means just about nothing; if he has 32 facebook friends, then I'd see it as jar_of_coins suggests.

I wouldn't worry to much about the whole friends he has on FB, I only have about 38 friends, mainly Family and one or 2 close friends, don't believe in having too many friends.

back to the OP I'd say just play it by year accept him and if your in anyway feeling uncomfortable just delete and block

Merkin

It could mean anything so I wouldn't read too much into it. Do you like him?

SunnyDub1

IMO just being noisy. Wouldn't read into it.

barleybooley

It probably means nothing if he didn't ask for your number tbh. I wouldn't read too much into it anyway.

beks101

He could be the kind of guy who adds anyone that he meets when he's out and about, or it could be that he's interested/curious about you and wants to have a good nosey through your photos

I've done this before with a ONS and it was more out of intrigue than anything else.

Why don't you send him a message and start a conversation?

MrBinbetweener

facebook can be dangerous.... some people wanna add anyone and in my view no one nighter should ever be added they could say something really inappropriate and could ruin your current relationship

HowItIs

It means he's open to the possibility of another one-night stand. You could speculate all day about what else it MIGHT mean, but the only thing you can say for sure is that he'd probably be open to another session.

Honestly I wouldn't read into it.

Katgurl

really impossible to say at this stage.

do you like him? would you like to see him again? If so, drop him a quick mail saying something like "thanks for the add. good night the other night, took it handy rest of weekend. what did you get up to?" or whatever. See if he gets back to you & asks you out.

If you don't like him, it doesnt really matter why he friend requested you.

Honey-ec

MrBinbetweener wrote: »

facebook can be dangerous.... some people wanna add anyone and in my view no one nighter should ever be added they could say something really inappropriate and could ruin your current relationship

Where did she say she's in another relationship???

OP, it could mean anything, it could mean nothing. If you're interested in seeing him again, accept the friend request and see if he messages you. if he doesn't, chances are he's just one of those people who likes collecting friends.

If you've no interest, just ignore the request.

Mr Bump

With the limitied info you provided i would suggest he likes you, he has added you into his ring of friends, and if you take the invertation it will suggest you are interested in more then a one night stand,

overthinking wrote: »

Hi I sound naive asking this but recently had a one night stand with a guy , next morning he adds me on facebook? what does it mean . This has happened to one of my friends also . Is this the new thing to do or does it mean the person likes me or just wants to be nosey?

Mc Kenzie

why would a one night stand add you on facebook? In my opinion that's a bit weird.

Unless hes looking for more. But as a lot of people are saying it means nothing .

Abit immature i think. i wouldnt add him.:rolleyes:

snafuk35

overthinking wrote: »

Hi I sound naive asking this but recently had a one night stand with a guy , next morning he adds me on facebook? what does it mean . This has happened to one of my friends also . Is this the new thing to do or does it mean the person likes me or just wants to be nosey?

It could mean anything.
He might like and want to sleep with you again.
He might want a serious relationship.
He might want to keep you on facebook as a momento - a kind of notch in the bed post.
If its just an ego boost for him then why shouldn't it be an ego boost for you too if all he wanted as just sex?
If he wants something more serious and you feel the same way then why not?
Either way it is all good.
If it is just a one night stand and you enjoyed it then you have a nice memory don't you.
Enjoy your life either way.

LegacyUser

It means despite doing the most intimate thing you can do with another person he's a coward that’s unwilling to take the risk to really put himself out there. Id stay clear of anyone this immature.

_Kaiser_

People read way too much into Facebook IMO.

Just add him, see what he says (if anything) and if it gets weird/uncomfortable, delete him again.

If you're that concerned, add him into a group with limited access to the rest of your profile.

I never got the appeal of Facebook myself (I think the South Park episode on the subject sums it up for me), but I wouldn't be stressing over it OP