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  • 25-06-2012 6:49pm
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    Belfastmedic
    Registered Users Posts: 69 ✭✭


    Hi guys,

    Is there anyway i can get a legal document such as a safety order, barring order etc or just a solicitors letter to prevent someone from contacting me by phone, email, facebook my home address?

    Having a bit of trouble with someone at the moment and i want him out of my life :(


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    MagicSean
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,897 ✭✭✭MagicSean


    Only if you have lived with them for at least six out of the last 12 months.


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    Belfastmedic
    Registered Users Posts: 69 ✭✭Belfastmedic


    No lucky enough i didn't live with him.

    We are due a baby in 10 weeks :(

    He is threatening me with a solicitors letter and having my facebook removed for writing stuff about him, i said some stuff because of all the ****e he put me through.

    He also found out where i live.

    Major stressed out.


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    not even wrong
    Registered Users Posts: 480 ✭✭not even wrong


    First of all tell him to stop contacting you. Second, if he continues after being told to stop make a harassment complaint to the cops. Third, don't escalate the situation by slagging him off on Facebook.


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    Belfastmedic
    Registered Users Posts: 69 ✭✭Belfastmedic


    The stuff i said on facebook was what he done to me rather than slagging off.

    I.e made me do a pregnancy test in a hotel in february then refused to come to a live scan or meet the Doctor.

    I did apologise for what i said.

    I was just hoping i can get something to say he cannot contact me :(


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    ABajaninCork
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,411 ✭✭✭ABajaninCork


    Commented on your other thread.

    Delete your FB. A solicitor's letter should do the trick.


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    goz83
    Registered Users Posts: 8,034 ✭✭✭goz83


    There's obviously alot more to this story. If you're fighting over whether or not he sees the baby, I don't see the cops having much interest unless he is genuinely harassing you. If you spent some time in hotel rooms, you should at least be able to talk amicably. If that's not an option, you'll be visiting your solicitor for advice.


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    Belfastmedic
    Registered Users Posts: 69 ✭✭Belfastmedic


    Unfortunately not a hotel room, a hotel bar toilet.

    We're not fighting over the baby, i will even put his name on the birth certificate.

    He gave me a hard time and i just want him out of my life.

    Going to go to a solicitor tomorrow.


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    goz83
    Registered Users Posts: 8,034 ✭✭✭goz83


    :D

    Naughty.

    Best of luck with it then. Just avoid facebook in the future.


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    Belfastmedic
    Registered Users Posts: 69 ✭✭Belfastmedic


    Lol i should clear it up :o

    I went to a hotel bar toilet to take the pregnancy test.

    He sat in the bar.


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    goz83
    Registered Users Posts: 8,034 ✭✭✭goz83


    I preferred my original thoughts :p


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