Love - How to tell?

LegacyUser

I've been with my gf for about 5 months now and i was just wondering if there's any way to tell if she loves me?

I have never felt like i do for a girl before but am afraid to say anything for fear or appearing too eager and ultimately ruining what we already have.

Help please?

Both in early 20's.

SheFiend

I think it's early days to be talking about love, but maybe that's just me.

Dellnum

Sounds like you have something good, so chances are she does love you. Normally you just know these things, your gut instinct tells you. If she has treated you well up to now then I would say you are in with a good chance.;)

dannyc31

god i wish i could answer this question myself. seems like the old cliche of "you just know" is the only answer mate. and from knowing if she feels the same, i think the cliche "if its meant to be, its meant to be" has to be used.

just enjoy it thou if things are good and see where things go

Piliger

Hi OP. Who knows - is the answer ..... there is no 'test' otherwise life would be a lot easier, believe me :rolleyes:

Try to live life as it is and not wonder if the word should be 'love'. Judge the situation by how she is behaving, and not necessarily by her using the L word yet. Enjoy being with this girl and it will take care of itself.

At your age most people are nervous about using the L word in case it makes thing too heavy and scares the other person away. And in your early 20s let's be honest you are in the early days of complex relationships.

Best of luck.

Merkin

Actions are normally a good indicator. The way someone is when they are with you. If they want to make you happy at every opportunity. If they light up when they see you and show you affection and respect and kindness in equal measure. Don't get bogged down in labels or definitions - right now it's about the two of you and how you feel when you're together...statements will come in their own time.

Motley Crue

There's no test, the moment only comes when you least expect it actually

Mr Bump

OP, As per atteched "who knows" well i know who knows, she does, In my life long experience i have found the best way for this is to share your feelings on a good night out together on your own, when you share your feeling I am sure she will to, good, bad, or indifferent, dont be afriad, hit life head on, just my opinion,

Piliger wrote: »

Hi OP. Who knows - is the answer ..... there is no 'test' otherwise life would be a lot easier, believe me :rolleyes:

Try to live life as it is and not wonder if the word should be 'love'. Judge the situation by how she is behaving, and not necessarily by her using the L word yet. Enjoy being with this girl and it will take care of itself.

At your age most people are nervous about using the L word in case it makes thing too heavy and scares the other person away. And in your early 20s let's be honest you are in the early days of complex relationships.

Best of luck.