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Breaking point

  • 14-06-2012 11:45am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi Folks,

    I've come on here in the hope of someone pointing me in the right direction.
    I've been going out with a lad over the last year, broke up last October becuse he"got scared".. although a couple of weeks later he was seeing someone else.
    anyway since we have got back together he's completely changed. He's become overly possessive over me, wants to be with me at all times and cannot grasp the fact that i have my own little life and friends. He acts all concerned one moment about me ( I've had a few problems at work and family) but then the next he's grilling me for not wanting to spend enough time with him. If I dont text back to messages staright away its a row, if I dont ring exactly when i say I will Its a row. if he doesnt know where i am at every min of the night or day its MAJOR rows!!
    I like my own space sometimes just to have a quiet night to myself in my own house not travelling all the way to his EVERY evening. I mean I see him over the week ends and a couple nights during the week..
    is this not enough?? or am i over reacting??


Comments

  • #2
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    Hi OP,

    Have a read of this thread, I think it will open your eyes a bit.
    My advice in that linked thread is the same for you.
    Get rid of him asap.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hi Beruthiel,

    Thanks for that link, some of the stuff there sounds scary and almost very similar to my position. I cant understand why he changed so much. I've always liked my bit of space but now I want even more of it because he's driving me crazy. Im beginning to make excuses of why i cant come and see him, i think its the beginning of the end.

    Thanks for your reply.


  • #4
    P. Breathnach
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,089 ✭✭✭✭P. Breathnach


    Lucy_Ann wrote: »
    ... i think its the beginning of the end...
    I think you are moving in the right direction, but perhaps not fast enough. The behaviour you describe is way to much to put up with. Get to the finish as fast as you can.


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