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Going Through Life Without Ever Having A Girlfriend - Can It Be Done??

  • 12-06-2012 12:04pm
    #1
    SharpshooterTom
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,017 ✭✭✭


    Ok guys I have to come to terms with something thats bothered me for a long time.

    I'm a virgin, I'm 25 and I turn 26 in a couple of months. In addition I've never had a relationship either.

    From my experiances, this a major red flag for the majority of women say 80-90% of them when you get to this age the poll results on the AH thread confirm this. Its bothered me so much that I even considered suicide on many occassions this year, but now I'm seeking councilling about it and my social life in general but I'm not sure its working.

    I've have always believed I am a poor set of genes and that I have simply deserved this. Social darwinism and natural selection has played its part for me sadly and that I am simply not up to societies standards. I've come to conclusion that I can't have children, because I would passing on bad genes, science is certainly telling me this.

    I can't get a girlfriend, and by nearly 26 I've never had one and I know by the time you get to this age you'll never get one. No girlfriend by 25, and well, you're love life is over. No women are going to want an inexperianced guy and thats understandable.

    Is it this hard to accept? You damn right it is, infact its killing me inside, but after being suicidal for months about it, I realise that the only way I can imagine to stay alive is learning how to live with it and learning to accept myself.

    Life's just not meant to be sometimes, I didn't choose to be born in this world, I didn't choose to go through this in some ways, its natural selection playing its part and I fully accept it sadly.

    Buts its very depressing, almost like grieving knowing my life will have to be this way.

    I don't know if I can hack it, its ripping me apart inside desperatley knowing I'm writing a large chunk of the population by acting like this for good now. Please help I don't want to be considering death. :(:(


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  • #2
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    If you have thread topic closed on PI - please don't repost a couple of days later.

    You clearly have some serious mental health issues and you need to get professional help for that - it is well outside the scope of this forum and those who post in it.

    Please do not re-post.

    All the very best.


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