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The real reason men use prostitutes !

  • 31-05-2012 6:42am
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 621 ✭✭✭


    Just skimming the prostitute thread. Not sure if this is covered.

    I hav a lot of single male friends in their 20s, and a lot who have girlfriends.

    Many of these lads use prostitutes after a night out. They all have the same reasoning.

    Its not that their sex lives are unfulfilling or their gf doesn't fancy it up the @rse or anything like that.

    It's just way less hassle. Especially for the single lads.

    Why spend 5 hours hunting around a nightclub with loud music trying to chat up girls who can barely hear ya, buy them drinks all night to get told she has a boyf or doesn’t fancy ya at the end of the night.

    Why not spend 5 hours having a great laugh with all the lads dancing and having good craic and then at the end of the night fork out 100 squids for a shag with no strings attached.

    I have never and would never use a prostitute but can understand why many men do.

    Also, I get to hear some hilarious stories from these escapades !


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,986 ✭✭✭Red Hand


    These lads may justify that to themselves, but knowingly having sex with someone who probably doesn't want to have sex with a drunken stranger is a reflection on their characters as well.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    dave3004 wrote: »
    Just skimming the prostitute thread. Not sure if this is covered.

    I hav a lot of single male friends in their 20s, and a lot who have girlfriends.

    Many of these lads use prostitutes after a night out. They all have the same reasoning.

    Its not that their sex lives are unfulfilling or their gf doesn't fancy it up the @rse or anything like that.

    It's just way less hassle. Especially for the single lads.

    Why spend 5 hours hunting around a nightclub with loud music trying to chat up girls who can barely hear ya, buy them drinks all night to get told she has a boyf or doesn’t fancy ya at the end of the night.

    Why not spend 5 hours having a great laugh with all the lads dancing and having good craic and then at the end of the night fork out 100 squids for a shag with no strings attached.

    I have never and would never use a prostitute but can understand why many men do.

    Also, I get to hear some hilarious stories from these escapades !


    Wow did you just justify a reason for a man to pay for sex?


    One men who use prostitutes need to learn how to listen to women talk to women and not get so pissed up that when he approaches her he makes no sense...

    Two paying for an act of intimacy is not intimacy its a deluded thing that a man does because he's got some sort of build up that if he don't get sex he's going to die ?

    Three your what's wrong with modern society.... Your saying it's ok to py for sex?


    Your also saying that hey you don't need charm you don't need charisma because a man wants something he can pay for it... But that's not even the worse thing....

    Your saying its ok. To cheat, because well I really can't fathom ....


    Man kind is officially a slave to the vagina!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,646 ✭✭✭✭Sauve


    Yes OP your point was covered in the original thread. Maybe you should have bothered to read it.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Music Moderators, Politics Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 22,360 CMod ✭✭✭✭Dravokivich


    "Too much hassle," really? That's it?

    I recon most people make use of such services solely due to the availability of it, others due to self esteem issues. But not because women are a "hassle" of any sort.

    But people citing "Too much hassle," don't really seem to have much of a clue. I'm somewhat bewildered that you are mentioning friends that are in relationships on this too. Do they not respect their girlfriends? It's still cheating with prostitutes.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 669 ✭✭✭Fizzlesque


    dave3004 wrote: »
    Many of these lads use prostitutes after a night out. They all have the same reasoning.

    Its not that their sex lives are unfulfilling or their gf doesn't fancy it up the @rse or anything like that.

    It's just way less hassle. Especially for the single lads.

    Yeuch! What a nauseating snapshot into the minds of some lads.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 372 ✭✭UL_heart_throb


    Honestly, some feminists want to have their cake and eat it.

    Are women free to do what they want with their bodies? Then prostitutes should be legalised and the stigma of using them should be lessened.

    A lot of prostitutes made a lot of mistakes and had **** upbringings but only a small fraction working in this country are sex slaves or underage. Obviously those ones should be, I dunno what can you do with them? Set them free? to what?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,064 ✭✭✭Gurgle


    Snowie wrote: »
    Three your what's wrong with modern society.... Your saying it's ok to py for sex?
    Modern society... ever heard the phrase 'The oldest profession'?

    Whether its justifiable, excusable or ok is irrelevant.

    There have always been and will always be men willing to pay for sex, there have always been and will always be women willing to sell sex.

    You can legislate yourself inside out, but you will not end the sex trade.

    This just drives management and profit of the sex trade into the hands of criminals. Once you've driven the industry into the underground, you have set it up for exploitation.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,928 ✭✭✭✭Panthro


    There is no need for a second thread on this topic.
    Thread closed.


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