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Is he feeding me BS ?

  • 27-05-2012 10:12am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Well i know the answer. I am a fool. I have had a previous thread here looking for advice. And well it never ended.
    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2056442893

    We see each other every few weeks which is always on his terms and still no proper date. Im being hidden and being fed bull crap.

    We see each other, i get pissed off, stop seeing him but it always happens again.


    Right now im being fed more crap and i sersiously cannot take it anymore. He wanted to see me a few weeks ago but im not having it. It been seven weeks which is the longest. And i have no interest in seeing the low life piece of crap. He has hurt me over and over and over again. By just staying with her. He sees me as a hole and nothing more.

    His plan at christmas was to get a morgage and get his own place. Six months later, he's still living with her.

    Getting a place can take ages. Im not sure how long but can anyone answer me and give me a time frame to just how long it can take to apply for a morgage and get a place. He still didn't have a morgage sorted back in march. I dont know if he does now. I dont want to ask. Just asking how many more months could i add to March 2012.

    March 2012 + months/weeks it takes to get a place = ?????

    He was never givien me a time frame. Can anyone answer the above equation for me? He isn't. I just want some kind of indication. He wasn't happy with my suggestion of renting. Telling me he wasn't going to move into a dump, he has loads of stuff to move. Am i right in thinking renting is only a short term option, until he gets a place of his own? He can have a place by next week if he was to rent. Am i correct to think this?

    But he's not doing any of it and continues to live with her. And he knows how much its been killing me.

    I realise i am a fool, so please dont tell me i am. I haven't seen him in weeks and dont intend to either. If he cant walk away now, im done with him.

    Why has he hurt me like this?


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  • #2
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    OP, you were given two pages of excellent advice which you ignored.

    Re-read the advice already given & take it on board rather than repeatedly posting with what amounts to the same issue.


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