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Asking someone out you barely know!

  • 23-05-2012 9:27pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi Guys,

    There is a guy who comes into the bar where I work that I really fancy. He comes in maybe once a week or two so i don't get to see him that often.

    From the first moment I saw him, I was stopped in my tracks. I think he's absolutely gorgeous and he seems very friendly and sound (by that I mean him and his mates seem to have a lot of fun).

    Trouble is, the extent of our conversation to date has been along the lines of "Hey, how are ya, can I've a pint". I did ask him his name once and he told me then shook my hand and said nice to properly meet you. I added him on facebook a while later.

    I just don't know what to do . I can't stop thinking about him. I would love to ask him out but he is essentially a stranger and I'd look like a weirdo if i did!

    I actually know one of his mates, not well but enough to have a chat with but i know if i asked if he was single or not that he would tell him!

    I feel so childish writing this but any advice much appreciated:)


Comments

  • #2
    coolcat63
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 193 ✭✭coolcat63


    Keep it light and say something along the lines of "if I was on the other side of the bar would you buy me a drink?"...if he smiles then tell him when you're free, if he doesn't tell him you'd appreciate a tip instead...

    Go for it!! :D


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    coolcat63 wrote: »
    Keep it light and say something along the lines of "if I was on the other side of the bar would you buy me a drink?"...if he smiles then tell him when you're free, if he doesn't tell him you'd appreciate a tip instead...

    Go for it!! :D

    Ha ha...love that line....if I use it and he says yes then I'll buy you a drink:P


  • #4
    G-Money
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,199 ✭✭✭G-Money


    Ask him out if you really like him.

    Doesn't everyone barely know the other person when they ask them out? That's how they get to know them! Guys have to do this all the time so bite the bullet and do it.

    The alternative is to wait until he asks someone else, or someone else asks him and he comes in and you have to serve him and his new gf.


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