Is it my fault, what should I do?

LegacyUser

Really like this girl, it always was nothing serious just a bit of fun on nights out and went on a few dates
Had sex with a her a couple of times , since then she has being distant with me, If i text her she hardly keeps up the conversation. although we have been poking back and forth on Facebook constantly. We are friends in college, I texted a while ago about this and she said sorry for being distance that she had a lot of stuff on and that not too worry that if we were not cool she would tell me. Few weeks went by and i was told by her friend that she likes playing the field and ignore her humors. In which i did until she started flirting again and left a flirty note on my phone. She she seems only to text me now randomly if she wants to know something, but we do talk if we see each other in person and have the normal laugh. I also think she get annoyed me when i don't give her the attention, for some reason i feel down about the situation because it feels like she doesn't care about our friendship if anything. She is just very hot and cold with me, some day flirty other days cold and never ask how i am. I keep thinking have i done something and i have the urge to text her ok chat online, but i don't because it usually just ends very quickly.

Idle Passerby

It sounds like she views it as a casual friends with benefits situation and it sounds like that's all it is really. Her friend has even confirmed that she is not interested in being exclusive. She's probably keeping in touch just enough to keep that avenue open, but doesn't want it to get emotionally involved. I'm guessing you want more if its bothering you that she isn't more interested. If that's the case you need to either have a chat with her about it or move on.

Maple

Piliger, please do not post up any links such as the one you posted. Please read the charter before posting again.

Maple

Piliger

Apols. Careless.