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  • 08-05-2012 10:38pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I know I am answering my own question here..I know what is right....
    Yet I somehow continue to plea for him when I know he's no good and I just don't understand myself as to why I do it.
    The name calling, the no respect, the no quality time, reading "too much of her is boring" in his phone, reading an old diary where he once told me I am a dull woman to be around...I had forgotten until I read it on purpose to help me wake up! I don't even have the opportunity to get back with him as he doesn't appear interested...we share a child together which keeps our contact alive........ I'm still attracted to him, I still love him, and I believe he is still attracted to me and he would love for it to work but he is concerned over repeated failure...I wish I would just let go and move on but it's bloody hard.
    It's been a couple of years since we went our seperate ways....yet I continue to torture myself on occasions by pining for him... pining for somebody that was never really interested in what I had to say! I'm obviously expressing all the bad parts about him... we had great chemistry but the bad did over take the good...
    Not sure why I'm writing, I guess it's just to get it off my chest and hear someone say "wake up" and stop waisting my life any more on someone that was never good for me to begin with.....


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  • #2
    IrishEyes19
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,861 ✭✭✭IrishEyes19


    OP, you need to focus on what was negative in the relationship rather than the positive, I for one dont think the picture you have painted here of him is very pleasant, I doubt you are dull and what he said wasn't very kind. Try and get out there and date other people, or make new friends even, you need to focus your mind elsewhere. you are holding onto something that wont ever be the same again.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    He thought you were boring and dull..... maybe there was chemistry for you but not for him.

    Hardly think that he is still attracted to you.

    I split up with a gf a few years ago.... it just wasn't interesting. Regardless of how much I liked her, the boring side of things when we were going out got too much and the attraction faded very soon.

    Regardless of how good or bad he is, if he thinks that you're boring, he isn't into you. Sorry if that sounds harsh.


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