Fake Friends?

LegacyUser

Hi there,

Would really appreciate some advice as I'm at my wits end. Throughout my life I have always had friends, people too hang out with, go for drinks with etc. But when I moved away for college not many of these friends stayed in contact, the ones who did we just eventually stopped chatting regularly due to other commitments - meeting new friends in college. I fitted in very well and made a lot of friends in the college I attended, I lived with an amazing group of girls who I would have done anything for. But about two months ago, I decided I wasn't happy in my course and dropped out and moved home. Since I have, nobody that would have been in my close group of friends, which would have been alot have stayed in contact. I feel I'm always the one who makes an effort with them. I feel that now I'm no longer around they don't want to know me. After a number of times trying to make an effort and getting odd vibes I decided to ask them if I had done something, were they angry and I felt that since I had moved home they didn't want to know me. Every answer was the same 'No, everythings fine' etc.. but still nothing from anyone. It's so upsetting as I have no idea what I have done, nobody will tell me and I would do anything for these people and they don't give a **** about me.
Since moving home i'm starting to get in contact with old friends but, I still feel like i'm being a burden on them. I'm so lonely constantly and don't know what to do. I'm twenty one years old and I feel like I don't have one friend I can truly call a friend.
Advice/ Help/ Anything appreciated.

Tiocfaidh Armani

Can I ask, did you stay in touch with them when you were in college? There could be a bit of resentment like "she only wants to know us when she's here and didn't bother when she was away". I'm not sure, but it's bad form that they're being cold with you.

Beruthiel

Duplicate thread.