Should I be worried?

LegacyUser

I've been seeing a boy since December and we made it "official" (much as I hate labels) 3 weeks ago. He's great and I really like him but one thing is kind of bothering me. We kiss all the time but it never goes any further. Neither of us have a lot of experience with all this but we're both in our 20s and I just feel like its a bit childish. I don't really know how to bring it up in conversation either...."it's great that you're such a gentleman but I'd actually prefer if you weren't so cautious and sweet?" It doesn't help that we're both living with our parents because we're in college so we don't really have anywhere private to go but I feel like even if we were alone he wouldn't try to take it further. I just really feel that the physical element of the relationship isn't there as much as I'd like it to be at the moment but everything else is perfect. I'm starting to think that he might just not be physically attracted to me but then why would he have asked me out in the first place? I'm generally happy with how I look, have a good body and I look after myself but I've been feeling a lot less confident in the last couple of weeks because of this. Should I be worried about this? And is there a way I can kind of let him know I'm ok with going further without telling him?

Thanks

Squarewave

Why not take the initiative yourself instead of waiting for him to make the first move?

Wompa1

You don't like labels and you think because a guy doesn't try to get in your pants you question your looks....

Like the last poster suggested. If you are so keen why don't you make the movie. Maybe he's a virgin and wants to be sure before he just gives it to anybody.

judgefudge

Just go for it and drop the hand on him

Even without knowing anything about him I can guarantee he won't be complaining.

I've been in this situation with a recent ex, I think in that case it was that he didnt want to push things too quickly, maybe it's the same for your guy?