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Is he interested? Should I make a move?

  • 05-05-2012 4:05pm
    #1
    QueenBee1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 282 ✭✭


    I have been talking to this guy on FB for the past month. I know him from socialising in the same town for the past few years and I know his brother well as my ex was good friends with him. About 2 weeks ago he asked for my number because i asked him was he going out and he said he would let me know and we have text each other a few times since every 2-4 days. The only thing is I don't know if he has a gf or if he is interested in me romantically. I know he had a gf for about 2 years but he is not "in a relationship" on FB but there was a picture of the two of them from 3 weeks ago and she recently posted on his wall. I dont know if I should go for it and ask him to meet or something to test the water but its the awkwardness of asking him and the fear of rejection. Also he hasnt text me since tuesday so should I just wait for him to text me again or text him myself? What do you think how can I find out this guys intentions? What's your opinion? What should I do etc?


Comments

  • #2
    stringofmisery
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41 ✭stringofmisery


    Just leave it....if he want's it he'll come get it!don't chase him.


  • #3
    Stavro Mueller
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,673 ✭✭✭Stavro Mueller


    stringofmisery wrote: »
    Just leave it....if he wants it he'll come get it! Don't chase him.

    +1 to this.

    I'd also be thinking that his ex may be back on the scene in some form or another.


  • #4
    Procrastastudy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,224 ✭✭✭Procrastastudy


    stringofmisery wrote: »
    Just leave it....if he want's it he'll come get it!don't chase him.

    Some guys just don't make the first move. In an era of equality this attitude should really be done away with. Be honest tell him you have feelings for him and ask him what the situation with the other girl is. Simple honesty - what are you going to lose - an acquaintance of Facebook?


  • #5
    event
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,119 ✭✭✭✭event


    stringofmisery wrote: »
    Just leave it....if he want's it he'll come get it!don't chase him.

    right.

    why is this the case?
    can the woman not ask a guy out?

    christ txt him, if he doesnt txt bck its not the end of the world


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