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  • 25-04-2012 3:29pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    My fiance broke up with me.
    We lived together and have a child.

    He doesn't want me back.

    How do i move on?
    My future was to have him in it and now Im a single parent, living with a relative til i find a new home. I don't know how Im going to cope. I miss him so much and can't see how he can just walk away.

    Im so heartbroken. Today i just wandered in the rain not knowing what i was supposed to be doing.
    I can't believe its over.
    What am i supposed to do?
    Please tell me what Im supposed to do without the man i love and planned to spend the rest of my life with.
    How can he just leave.


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  • #2
    sammye333
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78 ✭✭sammye333


    Sorry to hear about your misfortunes. Only your BF can answer for his actions. Have you asked him?

    Why did you and your child move out.If he finished up, surely he should have moved out. Doesnt seem right.

    People will tell you, time is a great healer.Which it is. Just look after yourself. You also have a child to look after. Do you have family and friends you could talk too.

    sammy


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hi, I was in the exact same situation as you not to long ago, and I can tell you you will definitely get through this. I know the last thing you want to hear is that time heals all, but it does! I promise you that much. What you need to do now is concentrate on that child of yours and give them everything so they dont suffer. Having someone to concentrate on makes the pain less, even just for a few moments. My son got me through it. Just by concentrating on him and making sure he didnt suffer got me through the worst of it.

    You could also start doing things to take your mind off everything. Having people around you so you dont feel alone, even if you dont speak. Even if you just spend the whole time crying, at least you know someone is around and as time goes on you will start to hurt less. Kepp contact to a minimum is the only advice I would give you.

    You can do this.


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