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Reasons for low sex drive??

  • 25-04-2012 3:14pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    So I have been in a relationship for over 5 years now and everything is going great except for my sudden lack of interest in sex. We always had a great sex life but it seemed like overnight I completely lost interest and that was over a year ago now and it has no signs of returning.

    It is becoming increasingly frustrating as more time goes by for both of us. I really want to enjoy sex again, but it seems impossible right now. I can't pin it down to anything either, at first I put it down to stress, but it doesn't seem to be as time passes. I should mention I'm in my early 20s and still attracted to my bf. I just have no interest in sex and when I force myself to do it, I can't wait for it to be over.

    I have been on the pill (Yasmin) for 5 years and I wonder if I take a break from it would there be any change? Anyone with any experience??

    In the last few months especially I am anxious to sort this problem out as it's really affecting our relationship. When we try talk about I get upset because I can't explain myself and he feels guilty for bringing it up all the time.

    Anyone with advice?


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  • #2
    Wibbs
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  • #3
    blatantrereg
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    An ex of mine described coming off yasmin as feeling like she was coming out of a cloud. I think it did effect her sex drive too. Hormones would seem like the most obvious cause of this, and I think Yasmin is a very strong hormone pill. You could look at lower strength alternatives, or other methods.

    You could also look at diet and exercise, which can also have effects on hormone levels.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
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    I used to be very active until I started driving so I did try to improve my exercise recently, maybe too soon to tell but no change as of yet. I've always been good with diet, never been over weight, eat healthy (mostly..).

    Is it possible for my pill to be a factor? I wasn't sure because I've been taking it for so long without any problems.


  • #5
    Taltos
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    OP - we don't permit medical advice here. If you have concerns on your pill please speak with your GP.


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