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Feel like nobody cares..

  • 12-04-2012 10:04pm
    #1
    eskimo88
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3 ✭


    I don't really know why i'm writing this. I guess its because I feel that I have nobody else to talk to.
    The past two weeks have been the worst of my life. I was dumped, fell out with a good friend of mine and now a family member is critically ill. I have tried to talk to a few friends about it but they are busy in their own lives and don't seem to care too much about what is going on in mine. I guess they have their own problems to worry about. I just feel so lost and alone. I have nobody to turn to and anybody I try to turn to shuts me out. I have always been strong enough to just get on with things and deal with problems alone but this time, i feel like I just need a shoulder to cry on or at least someone to listen. I havn't stopped crying on and off for about a week. I guess it comes down to the age old question of 'Will time heal all?' I hope so. Should I try talk to my friends again about things or am I being selfish in putting my problems on them if they have their own?


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  • #2
    edellc
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,787 ✭✭✭edellc


    You should definitely talk to your friends again, that should be what they are there for, yes they may have their own issues but everyone has issues thats life and making time for others is what makes living worth while.

    You have done your crying, and gotten some clarity I hope so pick up the phone and ring someone and make them listen tell them you just really need a friend and if they are really your friend they will give your their ear

    love and hugs op hope all ends well xxx


  • #3
    SunnyDub1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,439 ✭✭✭SunnyDub1


    Hi Op,

    I know the feeling. Nothing worse then coming out of a relationship and feeling like no one is there for you.
    When I had just come out of a relationship all my friends where busy with their own relationships and own lives, didn't have much time for me. When your in a sisuation like that, you need people around you especially Friends.

    Is there anyone in your family you could talk to ?
    I found talking to my sister and mam really helped.

    You should talk to your Friends about how you feel. Maybe try get them out to the cinema or for lunch and maybe tell them how you are feeling. If they listen and understand how you are feeling they might make more time for you.
    If they don't well then maybe it's time to consider a new group of friends.

    Also don't be to Dependant on people. Try do things for yourself. I found watching a film or TV show, going for a walk, going shopping took my mind off things. If you try to keep yourself busy you will have less time to think about things that are bothering you.

    It's gets easier trust me. Your going to have good days & bad days (like everyone). Just try keep the head up and keep busy and talk to people.

    Best of luck :)


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