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Chase it or not?

  • 11-04-2012 9:53am
    #1
    seeker11
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30 ✭


    Hi, I went through a really bad break up a couple of years ago. Since then I've pretty much single as I needed to sort my head out. Did try a bit of internet dating, which I ended up going on a few dates, and also ended up chatting to a couple of married guys etc, (not knowing they were hitched). gave it up for now as it was a bit disheartening.
    Anyway,recently ended up bumping into a guy that I knew from uni days. We were chatting a while and swapped numbers. We ended up meeting up a few days later and I really enjoyed the night out with him. However, I ended up kissing him at the end of the night and one thing led to another. He recently split with his fiancee so I guess we had that in common and also knew a lot of mutual people. There was no mention of a further meeting up, although he sent a text a couple of times since, just v.general though. Thing is, I know I could really really fall for this guy, but I guess after all my experiences I am reluctant to push anything, esp that he is just recently split, and although he was really keen to meet up, I obviously don't know if I ruined it by making a move, or if he's just not interested, or did I just give off the wrong impression.
    I know I can't get the answers here but here is a guy who gives me butterflies for the first time since my bad break up, and I don't know if I should chase it or not. Currently, I'm just leaving it as I'm afraid of getting in touch and being rejected.
    Any tips?


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