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Has she lost interest or just give her space?

  • 04-04-2012 8:47pm
    #1
    zooropa2012
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41 ✭


    Had sex with a girl last weekend, since then she has being distant with me, sent her two texts last week but no reply, but for the last few days we have been poking back and forth on facebook. We are friends in college like and have been seeing each other since christmas.

    I texted her last night and I did finally get a response, she said sorry for being distance that she had a lot of stuff on and that not too worry that if we were not cool she would tell me. I saw her in college today and we go on ok,
    asked her if she wanted to do somthing later but she replied she was tired and she wanted to have a quiet one.

    Should I just give up or be patient and leave her approach me again?.


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Leave her be... girls can often behave strange after sex... I would not contact her again, let her contact you. Don't come across desperate and pushy as it's a massive turn off. I don't believe in playing games but playing hard to get always works, if she wants you she'll contact you in time but give her space, sounds to me like you are smothering her.


  • #3
    Sephiroth_dude
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 81,083 Mod ✭✭✭✭Sephiroth_dude


    zooropa2012 wrote: »
    Had sex with a girl last weekend, since then she has being distant with me, sent her two texts last week but no reply, but for the last few days we have been poking back and forth on facebook. We are friends in college like and have been seeing each other since christmas.

    I texted her last night and I did finally get a response, she said sorry for being distance that she had a lot of stuff on and that not too worry that if we were not cool she would tell me. I saw her in college today and we go on ok,
    asked her if she wanted to do somthing later but she replied she was tired and she wanted to have a quiet one.

    Should I just give up or be patient and leave her approach me again?.

    I would just leave her be for the moment and let her come to see you when she's ready,just keep yourself busy and don't be txting her all the time,maybe in week or two give her a call see how she's getting on?


  • #4
    zooropa2012
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41 ✭zooropa2012


    Sephiroth_dude wrote: »
    I would just leave her be for the moment and let her come to see you when she's ready,just keep yourself busy and don't be txting her all the time,maybe in week or two give her a call see how she's getting on?

    Yea my mind is just jumping to a 101 conclusion and i blame myself, i shall try and not text her for a little and keep cool. It just difficult when i care too much :-(


  • #5
    Sephiroth_dude
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 81,083 Mod ✭✭✭✭Sephiroth_dude


    zooropa2012 wrote: »
    Yea my mind is just jumping to a 101 conclusion and i blame myself, i shall try and not text her for a little and keep cool. It just difficult when i care too much :-(

    *sigh* sure don't I know it


  • #6
    zooropa2012
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41 ✭zooropa2012


    Sephiroth_dude wrote: »
    *sigh* sure don't I know it

    In a similar situation??


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  • #7
    Sephiroth_dude
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 81,083 Mod ✭✭✭✭Sephiroth_dude


    zooropa2012 wrote: »
    In a similar situation??

    I was and it's not nice,so keep yourself busy my friend and keep the faith : )


  • #8
    Herrick
    Closed Accounts Posts: 903 ✭✭✭Herrick


    I would agree on leaving her be, but do not contact her again in a week or two.

    I'd leave it to her to contact you. You have made more than enough of an effort with her, the balls in her court now.


  • #9
    zooropa2012
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41 ✭zooropa2012


    It's been a week now, I haven't texted her at all, she stop poking me yesterday, still have an urge to talk to her when I see her online. I will prob See her in college near the end of the week. Keeping strong now and keeping it in my head that she must contact me first if she's interested!


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