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Who to invite or not invite!

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 294 ✭✭Bride2012


    Love it. Pity I didn't think that logically a year ago when making mine out and have something to show my parents. I'll be posting out a ridiculous amount of invitations in two weeks. :-(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 41,926 ✭✭✭✭_blank_


    Invite who you want.

    Not who "other people" "think should be there".

    It's a fairly simple rule.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,463 ✭✭✭loveisdivine


    The only thing I dont agree with on that is "will there be family drama if their not invited?"

    Theres quite a few people who we are not going to invite, and we already know that grooms mum is gonna kick up a fuss about it and probably create "drama" but that doesnt mean we are going to just give in and invite whoever she wants to avoid drama.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,644 ✭✭✭✭lazygal


    We invited who we wanted to be there. Didn't really do 'duty' invites because we told our parents we weren't shelling out for their friends to have a party on us! Sounds harsh but first on our list were friends and then the relatives we actually like. Didn't even consider asking awkward people or giving into pressure because 'we were asked to so and so's daughter's wedding'. We were paying for the shindig so we called the shots. Why would you need a flow chart to decide who you want to share your wedding day with?


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