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  • 31-03-2012 1:13pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Just wanted to get some feedback here.

    Younger / Older issue.
    I am in a situation where i have a sex partner (live together) , but im free to see other people.
    His reasoning for this being he has a lower sex drive, so hes kept satisfied. We are mostly together just for companionship I suppose.

    So I am free to find a new partner or sex partner.
    I have found another sex partner which is after the same thing.
    So whats your taughts on regular sex partners?


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  • #2
    Caiseoipe19
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 361 ✭✭Caiseoipe19


    It wouldn't be for me at all but I suppose if the both of you are happy with it sure isn't it better than someone doing it behind the other's back. I think I'd personally feel disloyal if it was me getting some elsewhere even if he didn't mind, but that could be just me.

    Out of curiosity, was it you or him that suggested the arrangement and is it out of uncertainty about it that you're looking for other's opinions or just out of curiosity?


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Cygnus wrote: »
    It wouldn't be for me at all but I suppose if the both of you are happy with it sure isn't it better than someone doing it behind the other's back. I think I'd personally feel disloyal if it was me getting some elsewhere even if he didn't mind, but that could be just me.

    Out of curiosity, was it you or him that suggested the arrangement and is it out of uncertainty about it that you're looking for other's opinions or just out of curiosity?

    He suggested it, its not the best situation but the sex partner is a good match. It does fell a little disloyal but it would be stupid to end a 5yr relationship if it suits all. Its a social issue as well i suppose, hard to explain the odd situation. Just looking for others opinions, Im sure others have or are in the same situation.


  • #4
    azezil
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,397 ✭✭✭✭azezil


    It's an arangement which has crossed my mind to help solve some (for lack of a better term) 'sex related issues' in my current relationship but we haven't reached that stage just yet, it's still far too early in my relationship to suggest that.

    But, if we're still together in 5 years, yes I could see that as being a viable answer and I don't think I'd have an issue with it.


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