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feeling so uselessa and poor

  • 29-03-2012 2:41pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    im 21 been living the last year in uk working moved home as my mother made me feel guilty about living abroad and stuff as she was worried , so now im living back home no job or anything feeling useless as my mam goes around telling everyone how useless i am and how i dont do anything at home. I am abit useless tbh cleaning wise, I have been trying for a job but no luck , Im feeling very down since i moved home and feeling stuck in a rut .

    she keeps nagging at me to move out, dunno how i will have no money and stuff and since im feeling down i just lost my get u and go .

    Im thinking of just moving to oz but have no degree or special qaulifications i feel so useless


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  • #2
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    whyamiuseless wrote: »
    im 21 been living the last year in uk working moved home as my mother made me feel guilty about living abroad and stuff as she was worried

    So what?
    It's a mothers job to be worried, comes with the territory.
    She will have to live with it. All mothers have to live with their children moving on and living their own lives.
    At 21, you are an adult and in charge of your own life.
    If you want to live and work in the UK, do it.


  • #3
    Herrick
    Closed Accounts Posts: 903 ✭✭✭Herrick


    This type of ****e pisses me off with certain parents here, I've seen it myself. You move to the other side of the country or abroad for work and they complain how their worried, don't like the thought of you being so far away, come home.

    Then the minute your back there's something else wrong. You can't win.

    OP, your not useless, the problem here is your mother. She wanted you to move home, but when you do she has the absolute cheek to tell people your useless, what a bitch.

    She only wanted you home to make herself feel better, does she even realize how bad things are here jobwise? Then she expects you to just walk into a job. She seems to have no cop on.

    If I were you I would see about the possibility of getting that job back in the UK if it will make you happy. Then when she complains, remind her of crap she has been saying considering she was the one that made you feel so guilty for living abroad that you left your job to come home to nothing. Then tell stuff it.


  • #4
    R.D. aka MR.D
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,643 ✭✭✭R.D. aka MR.D


    It is normal that parents worry. It is not fair that she expressed these worries to you.

    But on the other hand it is up to you to act like an adult and live your own life. You have to realise that your mother can't rule the rest of your life.


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