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need advice for my relationship

  • 16-03-2012 2:58pm
    #1
    jeldwend
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭


    I'm now seeing a guy though we havent known each other long i did find clicks n connection between us. I reckon he is excellent to me and really want to move the relationship forward. Before we first met, we actually didnt expect much to each other as we were just looking for friends and he talked abt he had been seriously thinking abt a potential job offer his previous employer can give to him which means he has got to leave the country where we both live for canada. Objectively speaking, its a great chance for him and he can better off than the current work in some ways. Concerning of that, i know i should b supportive. however, i like him v much and i dont want him to leave from the bottom of my heart.
    We may nt b at a stage where our current relationship can b a factor he would consider regarding his employment decision. We caught up each other at wknds n hv been knowing abt each other for two mths. no matter how much i dont want him go, it can b just a v individual decision w/o me involved. i dont know wut else i can do except wait for his decision n see him off later. i guess i should do sth, like some ppl said try to fight for it but i dont wanna make him feel im overreacting though if im so upset abt him leaving it must b from my deep feelings.

    Anyone can give some advice? I need some real ideas but frustrating give-up?


Comments

  • #2
    Vicxas
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,449 ✭✭✭✭Vicxas


    For the love of good please post it here;

    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=127


  • #3
    dr.bollocko
    Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 35,945 Mod ✭✭✭✭dr.bollocko


    moved from AH.


  • #4
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    Posts deleted - can I remind posters that as this thread is now in PI, all posts should be civil, mature and constructive and not contain text speak - and that off-topic and unhelpful posting can earn you a ban from this forum.

    If you haven't already done so, please take the time to read the [URL=" http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2056181484"]forum rules[/URL] in the charter.

    Many thanks.


  • #5
    jeldwend
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭jeldwend


    Welll..get to the point...i wd love to move with him when necessary but if its brought up, it wd also bring up many other things n m nt sure where he is in our relationship n if hes ready for that..as i said i dont want to behave overreactingly n 'scare him off'..


  • #6
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    jeldwend - please don't use text speak or your thread will be closed.


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