Slightly Confused

LegacyUser

Ok, in the grand scheme of things this isn't a big deal, but it's been bugging me for the past few weeks. Maybe someone will give me an objective, clear-thinking view on this (God knows I can't give one):

I was at a friend's wedding a couple of months back and I got chatting to one of the girls there. We got on really well & had a lot in common. She was (and I dare say still is) pretty, intelligent and good-natured. To cut a long story short, we ended up sleeping together that night. Woo-hoo! etc. The next morning we swapped numbers and said we'd keep in touch.

I got a text from her 2 days later asking if I wanted to meet up. I said I couldn't that weekend as I was finishing off my thesis (everyone knows what it's like when the deadline's looming for theses- it's crazy & every second counts), but I'd be finished by the same time the week after and I'd give her a shout then. She said cool & wished me luck.

Gave her a text the following week asking if she was free. No reply. I thought nothing of it & spent the following few days celebrating the completion of my thesis. A couple of days later I texted her again to see if she still wanted to meet up. Success! We agreed to meet the following weekend and I said I'd text her on the Friday (this was Tuesday) and we'd sort out a time. Friday comes, texted her again, no reply.

That was a couple of weeks back. Haven't heard anything from her since. Do ya'll think it's even worth trying to contact her again? Seems to me she's just got cold feet for some reason, which is strange considering how well we got on. It's confusing.

Anyway, thanks!

niceoneted

If you really want to meet her again I would say Ring her Ring her Ring her.

Princess Peach

I don't think anyone here can be sure why she isn't texting back, but the most likely reason is she doesn't want to see you again for some reason. I know ye got on well but you didn't spend a whole lot of time getting to know her, there may be many reasons or things going on in her life that you don't know about.

I think maybe text her once more and say you don't want to play games/ waste your time (in a nice way) and can she please just tell you where you stand because you do like her. If she doesn't answer that one, I'd say just leave it.

LegacyUser

Princess Peach wrote: »

I don't think anyone here can be sure why she isn't texting back, but the most likely reason is she doesn't want to see you again for some reason. I know ye got on well but you didn't spend a whole lot of time getting to know her, there may be many reasons or things going on in her life that you don't know about.

Thanks for the reply!

What you said was pretty much my hunch anyway. I'd really like to see her again, but I suppose she has her reasons for not getting back...and I don't want to push her about it as it might be a personal problem/quandary (as you said, I haven't known her long enough. And I don't have the right to pry into her life).

Bit of a shame, but hey, that's just the way it is.