Pregnant and depressed

LegacyUser

I`m pregnant and my husband is not willing/not in the mood/not in the right frame of mind etc etc to look for or accept any job.
He won`t go and at least try the last few jobs I`ve suggested, veg shop, petrol station, sandwich shop, nothing too taxing..
I miscarried last year on my own and he completely ignored me while I was going through it, said sorry after but it`s something that he`s done in every aspect of our lives so far.
Getting pregnant again I thought would make for happier times ahead but he`s done less to help out...
No housework while he surfs the net all day, I`m working 6 days and I`m crippled with tiredness some evenings and come home to his lazy a$$ sitting down catching up on the damn twilight zone etc
I`m just getting less and less interested in saving this relationship, I never wanted to be a single mother but financially I`d be better off without him to support
I give him any/all the money he needs for anything food, clothes, petrol, holidays etc
I still really do love him and really wanted us to be together forever but I just cannot get through to him to see he needs to man up and get a job and even if he didn`t at least if he tried I could see that we`re in this together
How can I get through to him when I`m met with excuses

I am a friend

Congrats op on your pregnancy. What do you love about him? What is so goodt him that is making all this nasty stuff ok?

Not trying to get at you but just can't figure what his redeeming traits are...