No sex and miss it

LegacyUser

I've been told not to have sex because I'm pregnant and in a high risk category. I REALLY miss it, we have a very active sex life and i know he misses it as much as I do. Only a few weeks ago we could go for it whenever we fancied and now nothing. We do other stuff but I miss the physical-ness of intercourse. Any advice for me or himself?

Acoshla

If you've been told not to all you can do is keep doing the other stuff and maybe make it more interesting, longer lasting, as it is now the "main event", it's either that or abstain from everything completely, if the possibility of doing sexy things but not intercourse makes it even more frustrating for ye, whichever suits ye best.

LegacyUser

Well obviously you can't have intercourse so he and you just have to accept that. so just do about everything else aside that, oral, use your assets (breasts)...also quite nice to have him give special attention too, and just ehm mutual stimualation. look at it at a way to be close and explore each other in other ways than intercourse...enjoy!

I am a friend

Is the issue that an orgasm may contrubute to an early labour? If so, you just have to take the advice given and put sex to the back of your mind.

cynder

I was told the same thing from 21 weeks, penetration cause bleeding and risk of miscarriage, i had 3 threatened miscarriages before they told me this, also if you have a low lying placenta penetration could cause it to rupture, meaning loss of baby and possible internal bleeding.

If your told not to have sex dont. you can still pleasure him and he can still be very intimate with you bot not penetrate. try all body massages, oil (not scented best option baby oil or bio oil) , darkness with at least 5 scented candles , nakedness, get him to massage you head to toe, while your both nude. He can kiss you head to toe too use his hands, lips, tongue, it can be very sensual.