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  • 27-02-2012 9:53pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    i have a nsa thing going on with a guy, the other night drunk in the taxi on the way home he tried to hook up with my friend

    am i wrong that i find its disrespectable with me in the car? what would u do?


    on a side note no i do not want or hope for more with him just to be clear :)


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  • #2
    ash23
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,791 ✭✭✭ash23


    It depends. Do you expect respect from a NSA person or not? Some do, some don't. If you don't then keep seeing him. If you do then end it.
    He's neither right nor wrong. He might think that NSA means free for all and he doesn't have to consider your feelings in any way.
    Up to you to decide if that's the treatment that you are willing to accept.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    op here

    thanks for your answers ladies :)

    @ ash.... i think you got it, i didnt see it till i read it, hes a frnd so yes i did expect respect and he did cause me embarrassment so thats that book closed!!


    time to bow out :)


  • #4
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    People seem to be under the misapprehension that NSA equates to no expectation of respect from either party. That's totally not the case imo. Just because you don't want to date one another it doesn't mean you treat the other like dirt. I

    would expect that both parties have agreed that they are involved purely on a physical level but with that comes some basic parameters on good behaviour. Trying to score your friend is just seedy and makes him sound like a gob****e.

    On a side note, why on earth are you going out drinking with an NSA buddy? If it's purely NSA then you're entering grey areas if you start going out with them socially etc....


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    op here
    miss fluff i agree 100%


    i clearly expected respect, didnt get it lesson learnt :)


    how were we drinking in the same pub, he just turned up with his frnds and ended up having a few drinks together etc etc i was hardly going to ignore him or leave the pub that would have been childish on my part


    thanks for your answer :)


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