Whats happening?

LegacyUser

I met a guy around a month ago. He's lovely, really sweet and seems to like me. He doesn't live nearby though and his mam is really really sick so he can't get away much. We've been on 3 dates, and I slept with him earlier than usually becoz I do like him and figure there's no point holding out when I don't know how often I'll see him. Dates have been great, he stayed over and stayed up most of night chatting and he hung around ages next days. Im wandering if I can ask if he's planning to kiss other people, coz the way things have gone it would hurt to here and if hes thinking that way im afraid I should get out before I get properly hurt. Dont wanna scare him off either tho! Help pls!

I am a friend

If you are sleeping with someone you are entitled to know if they are sleeping around... Ask

Pebbles68

I am a friend wrote: »

If you are sleeping with someone you are entitled to know if they are sleeping around... Ask

I agree. It doesn't have to be a big thing, just ask hime if the two of you are exclusive.

LegacyUser

I'm just afraid I'll come off as desprate and trying to tie him down when he really has a lot going. Have to look after me to though. Does it sound like hes thinking fwb? He's really affectionate and holds my hand and says cute stuff in text so thats making it harder not to like him

Beetlebum

Oh for heavens sake stop creating drama where there is none. You've met a great guy whose sweet and lovely so just enjoy it. If you wanna know if you're exclusive then just ask him. It's that simple, there is no issue here.

I am a friend

You can either ask him or stop sleeping with him - either way you will know quickly what his intentions are.

tinkerbell

It's like someone else said in another thread on here - if you are able to get that intimate with the guy by sleeping with him then surely you can ask him a simple question such as being exclusive! Just ask him!