why hasnt he texted me!!

LegacyUser

Hi
soo here is my story lol.. okay i went out sat night met a lovely guy he kept asking me to come back to his friends so i did and it was fab friends were lovely.. anyway that night we did a bit of fooling around etc.. did not sleep with him..
so anyway woke up looked a state as u do lol.. went into the bathroom to clean myself up.. anyway we spent time until sunday evening together etc.. he has my number and i have his etc.. we were kissing and all that, but i was like super quiet with his friends and it was just completely awk cos i just didnt know what to say to them.. so he dropped me to my car etc and said he would text me.,,.... i still have not got a text and i dont know why but is it more likely he isnt going to text me and now i feel like a fool cos i texted him and got no reply!! is it still early days or is it a total no no..

LegacyUser

Hi Op,
When did you text the guy? If he let you stay til sunday evening it's likely he likes you! Here's a story to cheer you up, my friend was with my boyfriends friend on Saturday night. On Tuesday she told me that she had txt him on Sunday night and still hadnt replied back. I didn't say it to my boyfriend cos I didn't want him saying it to his friend, but last night he told me that the guy really likes my friend! I was like why didn't he text her then! And he said he was trying to play hard to get! I think he only text her back today! I don't know if he'll be getting a reply though! Men!!! There's still hope but the longer he leaves it, then the longer you leave it to reply. Play him at his own game!

TheBegotten

Call down OP, you'll probably be grand. Have you considered he's like me and constantly forgets to buy credit? Or maybe he's busy working/Studying? If you stayed with him overnight and (excuse my bluntness) he wasn't dissappointed about not having sex, he clearly likes you. Relax, be patient and remember that us boys are generally not great at todo lists.

Stavro Mueller

I don't believe anyone is ever too busy to send a text. It's Friday now. He surely hasn't been without phone credit all week? Sorry OP. If he hasn't made contact by now I'd be pessimistic. He's just not into you. Don't beat yourself up about having sent the text. That was an understandable thing to do. Just don't send another.

beks101

Oh OP I feel your pain, I've been in your situation a few times and it's horrible - your brain just goes into overdrive with 'did I do something wrong? I thought we had a great time? WHY DOESN'T HE LIKE ME!!!'

So first off, breathe You will be fine regardless of whether he texts or not and at the end of the day, it's just a boy. There will be other, better ones who fancy and want you enough to make more of an effort - so if you don't hear from this one, you've had a lucky escape from further disappointment down the line when he just can't be aRsed again.

As someone else said, it's not a great sign that you've texted and got nothing back, so I'd deal with the fact now that it may have just been a one night thing, as opposed to agonising further. Of course, there may be a good reason why he hasn't and you might still hear from him, but don't wreck your own head in the meantime - it's not worth it for a guy you hardly know!

And finally, it's got NOTHING to do with you. You are still the same awesome person you've always been! You just can't control other people's choices, nor can you get inside someone else's head. Let him off, you don't need that head fcuk and maybe do what I've done with these experiences - exercise compassion the next time you meet a guy who likes you more than you like him, and set him straight instead of putting him through the same mental torture!

Best of luck - head up high - there's plenty of guys out there who would appreciate what they have if they had a chance with you! xx

ash23

I met someone New Years day, we swapped numbers and he never called. He wasn't drinking, he seemed nice and normal etc. After the first day of him not texting/calling I was pretty sure he wasn't going to. And he never did.
:rolleyes:

Sometimes they just don't call. It's crap but it's been 5 days OP. I'd imagine he's not interested.

LegacyUser

Hi everyone
Thanks everyone for all your replies i liked the ones that said he did like me lol.. but sure i dont know why i like this guy so much.. weird.. anyway ill get over him lol.. we'll see what happens .. thank you again xxxxxx i think it was more sunday during the day i was quiet and withdrawn and maybe that turned him off but i drank way too much night before,, anyway excuses excuses lol xx