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Girl At work

ifellover · 2012-02-16 14:36:17

There’s a girl I’m into at work. She ticks all the boxes. I want to ask her out. I feel we’ve a certain amount of rapport. I know I should do it but I get the sense she’s more into another guy at work, who has more rapport with her. He’s not as good –looking as me, he’s shorter, doesn’t have the same level of confidence as…

16-02-2012 2:36pm

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ifellover

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There’s a girl I’m into at work. She ticks all the boxes. I want to ask her out. I feel we’ve a certain amount of rapport. I know I should do it but I get the sense she’s more into another guy at work, who has more rapport with her. He’s not as good –looking as me, he’s shorter, doesn’t have the same level of confidence as me, but he’s well able to keep her entertained. I feel though like most Irish guys he might be too much of a pussy to ask her out.
So although she might have eyes on another fella, should I just go for it?

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#2 16-02-2012 4:19pm

Miss Fluff

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ifellover wrote: »

I feel though like most Irish guys he might be too much of a pussy to ask her out.
So although she might have eyes on another fella, should I just go for it?

Hello is that Pot? It's Kettle on Line 2 for ya!

If you don't ask her out he might get in there before you do, ask her out if you like her!

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#3 16-02-2012 5:29pm

ifellover

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sunflower27 wrote: »

Well, not all girls are attracted to the best-looking and beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that... but aren't you being a bit of a wuss yourself?

If you like her, ask her out, the worst she can say is no.

Yes, you've nothing to lose asking a girl out, except for your self-esteem and you might want to go home and kill yourself

Yes, I am being cynical

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#4 16-02-2012 8:30pm

Coco84

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She could just find the other guy easy to get along with but not into anything else with him. I say go for it. I know I've wished too many times that a guy would just go for it. Otherwise nothing ever happens.

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#5 17-02-2012 7:38pm

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Coco84 wrote: »

She could just find the other guy easy to get along with but not into anything else with him. I say go for it. I know I've wished too many times that a guy would just go for it. Otherwise nothing ever happens.

I agree with Coco. Also most likely, you will regret it if you do not ask her out.

She probably is comfortable with this other guy because she knows him a bit better but probably has no romantic feelings for him. I say just ask her out and good luck

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#6 18-02-2012 9:47pm

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Lorna 123,

As per the forum charter - please do not request updates, PI/RI threads are not soap operas.

Cheers.

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