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  • 14-02-2012 4:28pm
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    sushp
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    hi..i am in a relationship with a person from a year..he practically stays with me every day and says he loves me a lot...
    but never speaks about commitment or marriage...when i talk about it..
    sometimes he says he will marry me and sometimes says he cant marry me because of his mother...
    i dont know what he wants from our realtionship ...and what should i do...i love him a lot..
    i cant just dump him..or am i making a mistake...can you please advise me on this..
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    IrishEyes19
    Registered Users Posts: 1,861 ✭✭✭IrishEyes19


    sushp wrote: »
    hi..i am in a relationship with a person from a year..he practically stays with me every day and says he loves me a lot...
    but never speaks about commitment or marriage...when i talk about it..
    sometimes he says he will marry me and sometimes says he cant marry me because of his mother...
    i dont know what he wants from our realtionship ...and what should i do...i love him a lot..
    i cant just dump him..or am i making a mistake...can you please advise me on this..

    It sounds like an excuse, OP, is he living at home and taking care of his mother? you deserve to be happy, OP and if marriage is something you really want, then you need to move on and find it with someone who feels the same. life is too short to lose out on such things. I suggest you talk to him about it properly and lay down what you want and see what he wants too


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    I am a friend
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭I am a friend


    If he were serious about this
    sushp wrote: »
    he says he will marry me

    he would never say this
    sushp wrote: »
    says he cant marry me because of his mother...

    he is telling you what he wants by refusing to have a decent conversation about it... Dont waste much more time on him as it looks unlikely he will give you what you want but is happy to have all the benefits in the meantime.


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