shattered over sisters breakup

eiddas

My sister just broke up with her boyfriend, she is in bits because its her second big relationship and she is so so hurt, i feel as if someone took a piece of my heart, so i could just imagine how she feels , how please does someone take care of someone going through this , i've never experienced it so will never really know, i'm just so upset for her cause she believes something is wrong with her and she's actually a perfect girl for the right fella,, if only!!!

SineadMarie

Aw the poor thing..its good that she has you to help her through it. Your helping just by being there for her if she needs to talk, maybe get her out of the house for a couple of hours, go for a walk etc. Remind her that she is amazing and the perfect guy is around the corner she just still has to meet him. She'll get through it, I'm going through a break up and after a few weeks I'm feeling a bit better, time is a good healer.

eiddas

Thank you Sineadmarie so much, i quess i'm doing the right thing so , its very hard especially when time is against her , wanting a family etc.... I admire you for getting through it, it aint one bit easy, I do know time is a great healer but it takes alot to step into another relationship, I do recon a breakup is very similar to a death, so so hard ... Well lets hope it will get better ..thank you

username123

Just being there to listen and let the person talk it all out is the best thing you can do. Fair play to you.

IrishEyes19

Just be an open ear to her and try your best to advice her in the best direction. I find after breakups and bad ones, that you really find the worst things about yourself to focus on, so be there to remind her, how lovely she is.

eiddas

Thank you all so much for the advice , just been there for her to listen is such a comfort I know and yes she is putting herself down big time , which is heartbreaking because she is such a wonderful person . My heart really goes out to people in the same situation, thanks x