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Girl initiating conversation?

  • 12-02-2012 9:18pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Been with this girl in Dublin now since roughly the start of the year, meeting a few times a week, dates and the like.

    She basically said she's shy, which is fair enough, she likes me I know as she does initiate texting most of the time and plans to do other stuff, but in person she is shy. We're comfortable enough around each other at this stage not to be talking non-stop so its not even awkward when we arent chatting away, but I initiate most face to face talking. She isnt shy then and has a laugh etc, occasionally starts a new conversation, but for the most part it's me who does it.

    Anyone consider this strange? Or have similar experiences?

    Kinda thought she'd be opening up more of her own accord by this point.

    Could be just me nitpicking as things get more serious.


Comments

  • #2
    Dr. Manhattan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 190 ✭✭Dr. Manhattan


    jlc12 wrote: »

    Anyone consider this strange?

    Consider what strange? Two people who have slightly different approaches to
    starting a conversation but communicate well? What could there be to find strange in that?

    You may be overthinking things a little.


  • #3
    wylo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,214 ✭✭✭wylo


    shes probably really happy to be with someone that opens up conversation, it probably makes it easier for her pressure wise.
    I know loads of people like that.

    Maybe over a longer period of time she'll get more and more chilled and confident around you. "roughly the start of the new year", what , a month a half?

    Give it time :)


  • #4
    James W
    Closed Accounts Posts: 91 ✭✭James W


    Have patience and be gentle - she sounds really nice and sweet.


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