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messed around? Toyed with?

  • 12-02-2012 2:35pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    I'm in a confused situation. I've been "with" someone since September.

    In this time he's got depressed and broke it off with me, then groveled to get me back.
    He has gone on weekends away to other cities and not shown me pictures/given details.

    in the beginning, he said he would eventually see himself settling down one day with someone. Then, within the space of 3 months, he told me we have no future because I do want to get married someday, that he ruled out the idea of marriage/kids and knows that he only wants to go through life being "free" to do what he wants (I translated that to "who" he wants). That was breaking point for me and I left him. We worked it out to an extent. But now I'm in something that's on the road to nowhere.

    He's playing with my head. He said to me today "we're made for each other, we love the same things, everything we do is in sync somehow". I asked him not to say those things.

    I know that he will have another episode. And I know he will eventually just walk out to pursue his "freedom". I don't think I can go on like this.

    Should I wait and see if he changes his mind? Or break up with him because he has confused me to the extent that I Can't even plan anything with him because there's a chance he might go away from me? my self esteem is not that low but he is actually making me feel like it is


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