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Is this a bad idea

  • 11-02-2012 9:59pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi I just need some advice

    Been sleeping with a guy for about 6 weeks, booty calls etc. I have no desire to progress it further, we have nothing in common other than amazing sex and I'm not particular y attracted to him (except in bed). I'm pretty sure he feels the same. We're both just out of serious relationships

    I've never had a fcukbuddy before, do these things end badly i.e. with one falling for another? Also if I go on a date with someone, do I need to tell him?


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  • #2
    Daisy M
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,559 ✭✭✭Daisy M


    Personally I dont think its a good idea but your not hurting anyone.

    Who are you asking if you should tell if you go on a date your "booty call friend" or your date. Personally I dont know why you would tell either for a first date. If you start dating someone then stop the bootycalls and focus on the new relationship. I think it would be a bad idea to fall back on your friend for booty calls each time a relationship ends.
    Have you thought about how you will feel and what will happen if he starts dating?


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Would I have to tell the booty call? He's not even a friend, we met a couple of months ago.

    I am worried I will develop feelings for him, its usually the girl in these situations that it happens to isn't it? But now I literally do not feel anything for him other than he's great in bed.

    My friends are telling me to end it as I will get hurt


  • #4
    nowyouresix
    Closed Accounts Posts: 201 ✭✭nowyouresix


    OP: I had a friend with benefits situation with someone for a number of months....I thought I was tough / strong enough to do tht, but I really ended up developing feelings for him, so I had to bite the bullet and call it a day. I was gutted. Even if you enter in to something like that it is inevitable that one of you,and it is usually the girl, will develop real feelings. Fortunately the guy was a true gentleman and totally understood why I had to call it a day, but I know other situations where it ends badly. I would be very careful of your heart if I were you.
    Good luck.


  • #5
    BMSF
    Closed Accounts Posts: 46 ✭BMSF


    If you're asking if you can be with him without feelings, then probably not.
    I've been in that situation before and feelings will come into it, woman are just programmed to.
    If he is just fresh out of a relationship he probably just wants fun.

    Be careful


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