Is she playing games or what?

LegacyUser

This girl in my university class for the last four years, 3 of which we have kissed on nights out over them years and flirted constantly. I was her 21st kiss very recently, during the Christmas exams i brought here on 3 dates (not labeling it anything really) and had sex for the first time together, i thought there might be something as we got on great and told me she likes me,

As soon as we went back to college she has been off with me (friendly in person but not the same), not initiating contact, not replying to my texts when i asked to do something she avoids it (although she hasn't had credit in weeks i know for a fact). She always talks to me in class making an effort and we laugh together, some days she can be off with me (moody) and give me blanks stares and will not sit beside me, other days she can smile at me and stick her tongue out at me or be touchy feely with me.

In fairness I have given her the cold shoulder back aswel in frustration and annoyance. I also sense she doesn't want me in her social life (She is stuck to all her girlfriends quick to get away after class etc) i hear her talking about all her plans for nights out but she never asks me what i'm doing. I sent her a text last week telling her that if she doesn't want a relationship with me that is ok and that college should be fun and if she not interested in me anymore tell me, but she never replied and talked to me the next time i saw her like nothing happened and smiled at me.

Its just very difficult being around her in class I feel uncomfortable and even more so when i try ignore her because it looks like i'm being no fun around our other college friends, I plan not to text or facebook her anymore and just talk to her in class like normal. why has she gone off me like this is and just tell me she would rather be friends? When all the social life dies down again will she be back to me again?

Seeing the girl 5 days a week in class makes it difficult to get her off my mind.

maybe the next time she sits beside you and starts acting like normal, you should turn to her look her straight in the eyes and ask her 'why have you not replied to my last text?'

very rude in my opinion, if she just wants friendship, she should tell you that, if she is too immature, i wouldnt want to be with her if i was you!

if she cant speak to you face to face, ( or you her ) i would walk away and find someone that you can have a proper conversation with.

sounds to me like she knows she can have you whenever she wants.

Curry Addict

she sounds very immature. she probably hasnt got a clue what she wants and is just experimenting with boys...