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Did I miss the boat?

  • 08-02-2012 8:48pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    ok... here is my dilemma.
    I met this man I clicked with on so many levels. Initially neither of us was remotely ready for any sort of relationship, we had both had huge(and I mean huge)upheaval in our lives and circumstances which meant we couldn't see each other. First time we were together was late 2009. We didn't get together again until late 2010 at which stage he said he wanted to see me again etc, and both of us acknowledged that both of us had acted weird the previous year. Anyway we were together again a few months later, and he told me that he had to concentrate on other things for a while, back in college etc, so I told myself ok, that's that, and moved on. Come the summer I got an email from him telling me that he had been thinking about me, and that he really wanted us to stay in touch, so I did, and then as I thought , he never texted me back, so I left it. That was AGES ago...but today for what ever reason, a list of texts from his number appeared on the phone, and it seems he did actually text me, and I never replied. The dates were shortly after I thought he had blanked me last year, and again last month. But the strange thing is they didn't show up in my inbox of texts, if they had, I would have definitely answered. I feel really strongly about this guy. There's just no way I would not have answered if I had seen them. I'm just totally and utterly kicking myself here. I'm 36.
    So what should I do....or am I best to just do nothing?


Comments

  • #2
    I am a friend
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭I am a friend


    How did they suddenly appear in your phone?? What dates are on them? :confused:

    He is unlikely to believe this happened and may have moved on himself. You could try calling him to explain..


  • #3
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    I'm inclined to think that if he was genuinely interested then NOTHING would stand in his way, regardless of extenuating circumstances at play.If you want contact him about the texts but my instinct would say he's a messer.Only because this ' keep in touch' nonsense doesn't really wash tbh.What did he say in the texts? Don't you think yourself if he wanted to push things forward he would have phoned you and asked you out?


  • #4
    nowyouresix
    Closed Accounts Posts: 201 ✭✭nowyouresix


    Thanks guys, How I see it , is that he has my number, so I'll not hold my breath....I'll move on !! Thanks for confirming !!


  • #5
    dellas1979
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,128 ✭✭✭dellas1979


    Eh? The man HAS been trying to contact you!
    I no understand the first post and the last post. Maybe you just arent in to him anymore?


  • #6
    zxcvbnm1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 422 ✭✭zxcvbnm1


    dellas1979 wrote: »
    Eh? The man HAS been trying to contact you!
    I no understand the first post and the last post. Maybe you just arent in to him anymore?

    Exactly. What kind if logic is that by the OP ? The guy DID contact her !
    How is he supposed to know the messages didn't get through.


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