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Some advice please

  • 06-02-2012 7:17pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    So I broke up with my ex nearly a year ago and we've been good friends since, Our relationship fizzled out and we gradually just became friends so there's no attraction. I have a new boyfriend but I feel like if the ex got a girlfriend i'd be hurt. I know it's not right, I want him to be happy as much as I want myself to be happy, we both want to be good friends, part of eachothers lives and I'm mad about my boyfriend so why do I feel like i'd be hurt? Would appreciate some advice, thanks


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  • #2
    Katgurl
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    You may surprise yourself. I predicted feeling very hurt about same situation but when it inevitably happened I was initially a bit thrown then didn't care at all.

    Don't be worrying about if it is a reflection of your feelings for new boyfriend, it could simply be a resistance to change. Or maybe you see ex as security blanket, did he leave door open to go back? In which case you're just going to have to suck it up.

    Good luck with the new bloke anyway.


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