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Feeling lonely :(

  • 01-02-2012 8:30pm
    #1
    budweiser90
    Closed Accounts Posts: 44 ✭


    I have been feeling really lonely lately because I haven't seen much of my friends. I know we've had exams and have been busy but i spent a lot of my time in the house on my own the past few weeks. I was working over the xmas which kept me busy. I'm repeating the year in college so I'm only in a few hours a week.

    I get very depressed and anxious when I'm on my own for too long. I always feel I'm missing out on the outside world. I just love being around people. I feel I have lost a lot of friends too. I haven't seen my college friends because, were barely in college. I have 2 very close friends that live close enough but I dont want to be constantly annoying them.

    I have planned to take up a hobby like kick boxing just to keep me busy and make new friends. The sad thing is I dont have the will power to even book my first lesson. I keep procrastinating. I just stay at home on facebook most of the time looking at photos people enjoying their lives and I'm stuck inside. I know its up to me to get out there but I keep getting put off to try new things. I guess I just dont like being thrown out of my comfort zone. Please Help


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  • #2
    nowyouresix
    Closed Accounts Posts: 201 ✭✭nowyouresix


    OP: unfortunately I can't help! You are the only person who can help yourself. I find a good way to get yourself out of your comfort zone is by writing down what it is you want, a list of sorts, and make yourself do whatever it is that you have on there. Sometimes you just have to push yourself. It's quite normal to go through phases like the one you're in. Good thing is you actually know what you have to do.
    Good luck!


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