Where to go from here?

LegacyUser

Met a guy we had a few dates and stuff and I went home for Christmas.
We chatted a bit over facebook, a few texts here and there. Wasn't sure if he liked me all that much, I texted him about meeting up again and he suggested going for dinner so we agreed when I got back we would meet up.
I texted him and facebooked him about the dinner and never got any reply.
I decided not to contact him again and leave it up to him.
Hadn't heard anything since just after Christmas.
So I changed phones and lost a lot of my numbers, therefore, no longer had his.
Was out with friends and go back quite late and around half six that night got a ream of texts and calls from a number, replied asking 'who's this' and it turned out to be him, he said he missed me, wanted to meet up and talk, he liked me, he gave the impression he wanted a relationship etc, he asked to meet up the following day and when I replied I got no reply.
Messaged him on facebook a few days later and found out we were no longer friends on fb. I'm very confused and don't know what to do? I do like him and it seems he likes me too as he told me he did. Should I stop all contact?
Apologies for the long post.

LegacyUser

Oh my gosh - that sounds like a guy that I was casually seeing a few months ago - exact same thing! EXACT! I wonder is it him :-) I always suspected the guy Im talking about was doing this to other ladies also, I would not be surprised if it was him. Honest!

I cut contact because he was wrecking my head. And if someone is going to be all messy like that at the beginning for trying to start something, then they are not ready or are just using you for an ego boost.

gmac102

l hate these words maybe bcos they are true but he is not that into you


go find someone who is n u will

Stavro Mueller

In answer to your question, yes you should stop all contact. Why would you waste your time on a man who has "dropped" you twice and gone to the trouble of deleting you from his Facebook friends? He is behaving a lot like a man who's been keeping you on the back burner as a Plan B. Chances are he only sent those texts because he had nothing better to do that evening.

IrishEyes19

gmac102 wrote: »

l hate these words maybe bcos they are true but he is not that into you


go find someone who is n u will

Im not even sure "he's just not that into you," can be applied to this guy. Its more like "he's a total weirdo and run girl," should be applied.

Op, that isnt normal. Not even by bad date standards. If he wasnt interested, why not say so, or not reply. But to act like that suggests to me someone who enjoys headwrecking or else was seeing someone and got caught out by said girlfriend. Its bizarre and thank your stars, he's off the radar now.

ButterflyABC

He sounds like a total headwreck tbh. He doesnt even reply to texts and he deletes you off Facebook, he's 100% gonna play games with you. I'm all for giving someone a chance but this guy is a complete no no! You deserve better than this.

curlzy

Agreed, he sounds like a right nutjob, delete delete delete ..... oh you already have, Mission Accomplished! Seriously OP, there's nothing to be confused about, simple really, he's just a headwrecker /wacko, don't go trying to figure people like that out, you'll give yourself a headache.

Best of luck

Missy Moo Moo

Did I interpret this right or did he call and send you multiple texts at 630 in the morning? If so, that screams booty call. Either way, stop chasing him or wondering, this guy is a headwrecker. If he ever replies again, no matter how sincere he seems, ignore him or tell him you're not interested.