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I cant tell if he is flirting or not

  • 26-01-2012 1:38am
    #1
    Miss_yap_yap
    Closed Accounts Posts: 26 ✭


    I work alone but my superior visits my work place every so often. I noticed that he would accidently touch my hand, brush against me lightly as he passed me or when he's not there, ring and tease me about a work thing. He gave me his last rolo and made a big thing out of it. I thought it was funny. I saw him copying my body language. But I also noticed that he doesnt give me eye contact if we are in a group setting and he is given a talk. He would look at everyone else but me.
    He has to drive down to my store every know and then, which is 2 hours drive for him so he makes comments about it. I dont know if I should be flirty to him or just let it be. He does treat differently but Im kinda confused. I've been single for ages so I would like some bit of romance. Im 24 and he is 34.


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  • #2
    ButterflyABC
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 63 ✭✭ButterflyABC


    Miss_yap_yap wrote: »
    I work alone but my superior visits my work place every so often. I noticed that he would accidently touch my hand, brush against me lightly as he passed me or when he's not there, ring and tease me about a work thing. He gave me his last rolo and made a big thing out of it. I thought it was funny. I saw him copying my body language. But I also noticed that he doesnt give me eye contact if we are in a group setting and he is given a talk. He would look at everyone else but me.
    He has to drive down to my store every know and then, which is 2 hours drive for him so he makes comments about it. I dont know if I should be flirty to him or just let it be. He does treat differently but Im kinda confused. I've been single for ages so I would like some bit of romance. Im 24 and he is 34.

    Are you sure you are not just thinking that he's brushing uo against you etc. Sounds like he might just be being friendly. Lots of people joke about work stuff. Maybe you are focused on him since you are looking for romance and is he possibly the only option at present? go out and try and meet a fella closer to your age I would think.

    Don't think we have enough information to give solid advice. Is he married? Girlfriend? Etc.


  • #3
    R.D. aka MR.D
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,643 ✭✭✭R.D. aka MR.D


    I agree with the above. You can't really tell.

    Sometimes when you've been single for a while you start to get starved for male attention and start analyzing what they are doing and misinterpret it.


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