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  • 20-01-2012 3:42am
    #1
    IReadUrSoul
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 58 ✭✭


    Hey All.
    im a 31 year old male who has a unique problem , Girls find me extremely Attractive but Males dont:eek: !!! i am not gay and usually this would not be a problem , but as soon as i talk to women or even walk down the street with them i have guys coming over to say to them "What are you doing with that guy, He`s Ugly"??as soon as they hear this there off!!!:o

    I am on anti-depressants cause of the Anxiety from this and i am wondering if there`s any cosmetic surgeons on this board that would see me (i will of course pay them for the consultation)

    i have talked talked to female friends and they said this would be the best course of action

    Any help would be appreciated


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  • #2
    dudara
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,518 ✭✭✭✭dudara


    Moved to Personal Issues

    dudara


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    No cosmetic surgeon with an ounce of work ethic would perform surgery on you for the vague (honestly slightly crazy & unbelievable) reasons given above.
    Random guys keep coming over on the streets telling your female pals that you are ugly?
    Females find you very attractive, and yet your female friends recommended you going to see a cosmetic surgeon was "the best course of action"??!
    I'm sorry but your post makes no sense to me, it just sounds very, emmm... lets say bizarre.
    You are not gay (or bi?), women find you very attractive but you want to consider cosmetic surgery so that GUYS will not think you're ugly?
    I think you should speak with a qualified counsellor before bothering with any cosmetic surgeon..
    They might help to build your confidence in your looks instead of having what sounds like unnecessary surgery. (Unnecessary because as you said women find you attractive, and I can't fully believe that all guys think and say that you are ugly, it makes no sense whatsoever and sounds a bit like paranoid thinking, even if they did why should you care if you're not gay?)
    Very confusing post.


  • #4
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    IReadUrSoul wrote: »
    I am on anti-depressants cause of the Anxiety from this

    I think you need to see a therapist rather than a cosmetic surgeon.

    And I'm not sure what type of people you are hanging around with but I'd be concerned that your female friends think that cosmetic surgery is the "best course of action".

    Unless you have some tangible deformity where cosmetic surgery is the sensible option, no ethical surgeon will perform a procedure on you when your problem is clearly psychological.


  • #5
    ManOfMystery
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,394 ✭✭✭ManOfMystery


    IReadUrSoul wrote: »
    Hey All.
    im a 31 year old male who has a unique problem , Girls find me extremely Attractive but Males dont:eek: !!! i am not gay and usually this would not be a problem , but as soon as i talk to women or even walk down the street with them i have guys coming over to say to them "What are you doing with that guy, He`s Ugly"??as soon as they hear this there off!!!:o

    I am on anti-depressants cause of the Anxiety from this and i am wondering if there`s any cosmetic surgeons on this board that would see me (i will of course pay them for the consultation)

    i have talked talked to female friends and they said this would be the best course of action

    Any help would be appreciated

    OP, I was wondering if you could clarify your problem a bit more as I'm having trouble getting my head round it.

    You say girls find you attractive ........... yet as soon as another male tells them you aren't, they scarper? Do these girls not have eyes of their own and capable of making their own decisions? How often does this happen? Ive been on many dates and been out with many girls, and I consider myself an average looking guy ............ yet I've never once had any other male come up to the girl and tell her to get rid of me, and certainly not countless times like you imply has happened to you. It just seems a very strange and bizarre thing to happen repeatedly to one person.

    And if girls find you attractive, then what's the point in having cosmetic surgery? I doubt very much that even if you looked like Brad Pitt that it would make any discernible difference to the guys who want to get between you and whatever girl you're with.

    To be honest, if the girls you're with are so fickle and shallow that they'll get rid of you based on random comments from a third party about your appearance, perhaps you should widen your horizons and try dating different types of girls. I think that's the core issue here, not your looks.


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