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  • 18-01-2012 10:08pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I am in a relationship with a guy I went to high school with. We have known each other for 10+ years and recently got back in touch and started dateing. We haven't had sex yet but the other night we were talking about what we are both into, and he said he was really into roll playing. I told him I have never done that and would probably be a bit to shy for it, but at the same time, what exactly does roll playing mean? I assume its dressing up and acting out certian things, but is there more too it or am i all wrong? I told him i would probably be too shy to do that and he said it was ok, all in my time. I just really want to know what it is and how exactly you roll play.


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  • #2
    nowyouresix
    Closed Accounts Posts: 201 ✭✭nowyouresix


    Google it... Role play


  • #3
    LovelyLottie
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 185 ✭✭LovelyLottie


    Yes, roll play might be something else entirely... :D


  • #4
    Maple
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 16,186 ✭✭✭✭Maple


    LovelyLottie wrote: »
    Yes, roll play might be something else entirely... :D
    Appreciate the humour but please keep the responses constructive. This might seem funny to you but is an actual issue for the OP.

    Maple


  • #5
    jessiejam
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 778 ✭✭✭jessiejam


    abitshy wrote: »
    I am in a relationship with a guy I went to high school with. We have known each other for 10+ years and recently got back in touch and started dateing. We haven't had sex yet but the other night we were talking about what we are both into, and he said he was really into roll playing. I told him I have never done that and would probably be a bit to shy for it, but at the same time, what exactly does roll playing mean? I assume its dressing up and acting out certian things, but is there more too it or am i all wrong? I told him i would probably be too shy to do that and he said it was ok, all in my time. I just really want to know what it is and how exactly you roll play.

    Isn't it a bit early on in the relationship to be talking about doing something your not comfortable/familiar with, when you haven't even slept together yet?
    Try not to run before you can walk and go with the flow. Just make sure you are comfortable with it and don't feel pressurised into doing something your not happy doing.
    enjoy the honeymoon period.... happy days....


  • #6
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    Role playing doesn't require dressing up necessarily - all that's required is an active imagination and then see how far you both want to take it. It's a lot of fun so definitely worth dipping your toe into but I'd maybe wait until you've had sex a few times and get to know one another a little better first :)

    Great that you're both openly communicating at such an early stage - that's a good sign!


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