what does: take things slow really mean?

sameman

So I been dating this girl for a month now, and things are going rly well. Were having a lot of fun together. So I decided that its time to ask her to be my girl, but she sad that we should take things bit slowly. I bit confused now, cuz I not quite sure what does it mean. Does it means: hey Ur nice guy, but lets be just friends'' Or she wants to know me better.. I feel bad for puting her under pressure like this.. Shes worth waiting on thou. So what are your opinion and experience.. Thanks

BraziliaNZ

From my experience it means, I think you're ok, but not sure if you are good enough for me to commit to

Miss Fluff

Yep, I've always said it to guys where I'm not so sure if I want to take it any further than on a casual basis. She may just need longer to decide if she wants to get more involved with you and that's fair enough, especially if she is wary or has been hurt before or simply that she doesn't want to lead you on. You've only been dating a month so still quite early days tbh. Continue dating for now and maybe revisit the conversation again when you spend a little bit more time together.

sameman

thank's I do understand now